“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fat beast: "Men have gaslit other men into thinking that you shouldn't find Plus sized women attractive"

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I never required outside persuasion to convince me that land whales are less appealing than being Yazidi in ISIS country
 

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One thing that always bothered me about sosauve is that you have to do A.B,C,D,E,F to get a woman but, what about what you want as an individual? What about your standards and boundaries? why is it the man has to do everything just to meet a woman who doesn't even meet his criteria half the time for who knows what reason?

The older I get the more I let women know my boundaries and standards upfront, to the point I have to be blunt it's a great vetting process but if it means losing more women so be it, if men are truly the prize then we get to set the rules of engagement
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just wait another 10 or so years when the phatasss phenomenon turns into cellulite and Cottage cheese. Finding a fit woman is going to be like finding a unicorn at the end of a rainbow.
 

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It is easier than ever for overweight women to date.

An overweight woman can set up a dating app profile and have 400+ options in 24 hours.


With 400+ matches, overweight women can find dates and boyfriends.

It's common for overweight women to have boyfriends and husbands.
 

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It is mad indeed. In a way I might be lucky in the sense that I actually enjoy girls who have a bit of fat on them, especially around the good parts. Had a girl who was skinny over recently, and she had a nice b00ty, but you know what, I couldn't get hard for her. I need a bit of softness to get going.

I 100% prefer a girl who's a bit on the chunkier side, with amazing b00ty and t1ts, instead of a skinny fitness girl. Love it!
 

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I'm sorry ladies (in the video) but I agree with everything the narrator said!

Okay so you're plus-size (OK "fat" even though I dislike that word) but anyway...

There are lots of dating sites for plus size women and men who actually prefer plus size, stop complaining and join those!

And learn about male/female polarity and that physical attraction is like the VERY first thing people notice, it's true in 'real life" too!

If there's no physical attraction, it won't mean a hill of beans how awesome your personality is, period end of. Fact of life and basic law of attraction.

And look we ALL experience this in some form or fashion. For example I'm very blonde, fair skinned, light eyes (blue/green), eastern European roots.

I've had men from the apps (and I'm sure in real life too) not want to date me because I'm NOT their physical preference, they prefer and are only attracted to exotic dark hair, dark skin, Latino women.

Do I care? No! They're entitled to their preference as am I!!

My attitude is, if I'm not the right fit for them, then undoubtedly they're not the right fit for me!

And as such, I don't even give it a second thought. 100% truth.

One woman said she's happy with herself and her body as is; well if that were true why are you crying because certain men (ok most men) don't wish to date you?

Again join sites that cater to plus size OR better yet take steps to improve your lot in life like getting in great shape which includes eating right, physical exercise, losing weight etc.

Apologies for the rant but I'm really not getting this; I mean the entitlement and shaming men for having a preference and wanting what amounts to something very basic to all of us - needing to feel physical attraction before proceeding further.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It is easier than ever for overweight women to date.

An overweight woman can set up a dating app profile and have 400+ options in 24 hours.


With 400+ matches, overweight women can find dates and boyfriends.

It's common for overweight women to have boyfriends and husbands.
The irony is that becoming fat is due to laziness in the first place. Next, these women get gaslit again because some men rather feck a fatties instead of paying for p00s. At the end of the day she got fatter, older, higher bodycount, more trauma and less intent to be better,more arrogant while getting more insecure ect.

The man she really wants( like me and you) won't ever touch her with a ten foot pole.

For a woman getting sex via dating apps = going to the hookers as a man: it's not gonna be as satisfying to most and might even take away from one's self esteem. It's empty and shallow, and the other side( both to men and women in this scenario) won't ever respect you.
 

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The fact that fat women exist in such large numbers is proof that they haven't been shamed hard enough.

Look at Japan for example. It is a wealthy, developed nation and yet it has a much lower rate of obesity than the U.S. or even Europe. And no, it's not because their food is different - don't tell me you can't get fat on rice and noodles. It's because "fat shaming" is so normalized that it's not even considered shaming. It is socially acceptable to comment on people's weight, even in professional and educational settings.
 

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And look we ALL experience this in some form or fashion. For example I'm very blonde, fair skinned, light eyes (blue/green), eastern European roots.
I hope you are not comparing being Eastern European to being fat. If you are, that is the craziest comparison I've ever heard.

Gluttony is one of the seven deadly sins. It's right in the Bible. I don't recall seeing fair skin or light eyes on that list.

Being fat is literally immoral and sinful. Our ancestors recognized that basic fact for thousands of years. There is a reason why fasting is a key aspect of every major religion. The fact that people are now talking about "fat acceptance" is absolutely insane and a sign of a sign of how degenerate our society has become.
 

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The fact that people are now talking about "fat acceptance" is absolutely insane and a sign of a sign of how degenerate our society has become.
I hope you didn't infer from my post that I am "fat accepting." I wasn't and I'm not.

However I'm not into "fat shaming" either so I presented two choices.

Again join sites that cater to plus size OR better yet take steps to improve your lot in life like getting in great shape which includes eating right, physical exercise, losing weight etc.
I'm actually studying health and beauty (healthy eating, exercise, proper skin care etc) and in case I wasn't clear in my previous, the attitudes of those women irked me to no end!

My point re the comparison was to emphasize physical preference and how important physical attraction is and to stop whining!

Being overweight/fat is easily fixable and well within their own control.
 
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It is easier than ever for overweight women to date.

An overweight woman can set up a dating app profile and have 400+ options in 24 hours.


With 400+ matches, overweight women can find dates and boyfriends.

It's common for overweight women to have boyfriends and husbands.
Juggernaut Law
 

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Juggernaut Law
There isn't much data that supports the validity of Juggernaut Law.

Both attractive and unattractive women receive plenty of Likes on swipe apps. Swipe apps are where the thirstiest behavior exists.

I think attractive women receive more DMs on Instagram.
 

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A good portion of men would date fat women out of desperation but the stigma of walking around with one is too much.
Even fat dudes with fat women seems desperate.

the thing about being fat is it doesn’t happen over night so there’s probably some mental illness the person is dealing with.
 

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There isn't much data that supports the validity of Juggernaut Law.

Both attractive and unattractive women receive plenty of Likes on swipe apps. Swipe apps are where the thirstiest behavior exists.

I think attractive women receive more DMs on Instagram.
All Juggernaut Law says is that disgustingly ugly women receive a lot more attention that what most folks would think - not necessarily that they receive more attention than a Stacy or Becky.
 

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All Juggernaut Law says is that disgustingly ugly women receive a lot more attention that what most folks would think - not necessarily that they receive more attention than a Stacy or Becky.
Juggernaut Law can be considered accurate based on the first part of that sentence.

The most attractive women do receive the most attention overall on the swipe apps and Instagram.
 

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What is a Juggernaut meaning?

a massive inexorable force

: a massive inexorable force, campaign, movement, or object that crushes whatever is in its path. an advertising juggernaut. a political juggernaut. 2. chiefly British : a large heavy truck. 3. obese female with an attitude.


Who coined this for this demographic? Comedic genius. Need to tell Google to add to the definition.
 
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