"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fasting

BluEyes

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Do any of you guys have a day once in awhile where you don't eat anything and only drink water?

I do this once a month, and I go all out.

The last saturday of the month I essentially cut out all food(chewing gum excepted) and load up on water/green tea. On top of that, I use some diuretics. the kind that doctors give u before a colon exam, so I'm basically on the sh1tter several times during the day.

I reckon that since my diet is so high in protein(~340g/day), that a day once in awhile to cleanse the digestive system couldn't hurt.

Do you guys do any form of fasting?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Throttle

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BluEyes said:
Do you guys do any form of fasting?
only as a spiritual discipline or for a fasted blood screening. i'm entirely skeptical of the 'detoxifying' benefits of fasting. seems to me doing that on a high protein diet would simply shift from one sort of stress on the liver & kidneys to a different sort.
 

donjuanjovi

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Only when I get sick
 

Moon Ram

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Ya I got to do it for a month in every year.
 

Boschy

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I have never done that (water only day), but I try to have one vegetarian day per week. Note that I'm not doing a work out regime.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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