"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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djweses89

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Ok, so heres the deal i started talking to this girl on myspace, shes one of my exes ( which im still good friends with ) best friend. So I just started talking to her she was cute and all she has a nice personality all that, Well i got her number been talking to her texting and things and made plans for today earlier this week. Well last night comes I call her up find out what we doing if everything is still on all that. She was like yea but me and Arial ( thats my ex/her best friend ) wanna see a movie. I thought she was saying there gunna see a movie then me and her are gunna hang out but what the plan is for us 3 to go to the movies together, which is all fine with me cus like i said Arial is still a good friend of mine that I like to hang out with all that, just my question is should I try to make any kind of moves on this girl or is this her way of saying I just wanna be friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tenzen

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she wants a second opinion of you i think. Hence a 3rd wheel is going her best friend. Trust your gut instinct on this one if you should go or not.
 

djweses89

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well im honistly not worried about if i get with her or not I have plenty of other options, and I'm going for sure just so i have something to do, but I just didn't want to try anything and her not be like that with me and have to have some kind of weird tension for the whole night ya know, but i guess ill just be myself if i see opertuntie ( srry for spelling there ) ill take it if not ill just enjoy the night anyways
 
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