"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, I'll strive to be short. So, a year ago I have met this girl who I really liked and practically fell in love with her. She had a friend which was pretty too but she didn't mean anything to me comparing to the other one. During this year I have realized that this girl I fell in love with is nothing that I expected her to be. Shortly and politely said, she likes to go from a guy to a guy every day. I never kissed with her and I don't want to have anything to do with her anymore.

But, her friend which I mentioned earlier is a girl that I really want to get to know better and maybe start some kind of relationship with her. I'm sorry I didn't realized before that this one was the better choice at the time. I invited her to coffee at some bar a week ago, but the other girl, the one I was in love obviously to wanted to be the third wheel so she joined us. I was really angry but I didn't want to say anything. I know the girl I want now likes me, but I think the other one will constantly be an obstruction.

I hope I made this post clear and everybody understand what I want to say. So I'm asking you what is my next move?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jake23 said:
Hi, I'll strive to be short. So, a year ago I have met this girl who I really liked and practically fell in love with her. She had a friend which was pretty too but she didn't mean anything to me comparing to the other one. During this year I have realized that this girl I fell in love with is nothing that I expected her to be. Shortly and politely said, she likes to go from a guy to a guy every day. I never kissed with her and I don't want to have anything to do with her anymore.

But, her friend which I mentioned earlier is a girl that I really want to get to know better and maybe start some kind of relationship with her. I'm sorry I didn't realized before that this one was the better choice at the time. I invited her to coffee at some bar a week ago, but the other girl, the one I was in love obviously to wanted to be the third wheel so she joined us. I was really angry but I didn't want to say anything. I know the girl I want now likes me, but I think the other one will constantly be an obstruction.

I hope I made this post clear and everybody understand what I want to say. So I'm asking you what is my next move?
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I would invite one of my single buddies to hook up with that girl while you swoop in and take the one you're going for.
But if not, just tell her you'd rather have it between you two. If that girls really interested and that other girl gets salty, then the girl that's interested will most likely find another way to see/hang with you without her.
 
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Be direct and simple and make your intentions clear. Give yourself an opportunity to kiss on the first date. This is why movie dates are popular. Whatever you do, touch her and be calm.
 
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