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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fashion - Why do some look good in plain colored shirts and others not?

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I've noticed that I look much better in single or simple dual-colored shirts but somehow look much worse in shirts with "busy" prints on them. The "busy" shirt seem to take over and I disappear in them. I also don't have a healthy look in them. This has always been the case even as a teenager.

Anyone know why this is? It's ok if the answer is not that flattering. I want the truth.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the darker your skin the more patterns become a viable option...even french blue dress shirts on very pale people look off. If you are white typically irish, english, nordic ancestry stick to solids mainly...patterns are good for italians, greek, spanish, african, indian etc

think of the beach...tommy bahama busy shirts only look good when you have a tan underlying it.

If you are very white avoid the bright colors yellows, and greens vivid solid polos will make you look like a last minute usher in a golf tournament.
 
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