"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fashion - Why do some look good in plain colored shirts and others not?

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I've noticed that I look much better in single or simple dual-colored shirts but somehow look much worse in shirts with "busy" prints on them. The "busy" shirt seem to take over and I disappear in them. I also don't have a healthy look in them. This has always been the case even as a teenager.

Anyone know why this is? It's ok if the answer is not that flattering. I want the truth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the darker your skin the more patterns become a viable option...even french blue dress shirts on very pale people look off. If you are white typically irish, english, nordic ancestry stick to solids mainly...patterns are good for italians, greek, spanish, african, indian etc

think of the beach...tommy bahama busy shirts only look good when you have a tan underlying it.

If you are very white avoid the bright colors yellows, and greens vivid solid polos will make you look like a last minute usher in a golf tournament.
 
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