"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fashion Week in NYC

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So i'll be working filming some stuff during the Fashion Week this weekend (Press Access and all)... so basiacly i'll be surrounded with beautiful girls and gay fashion designers.

Any serious advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So, we shot for 2 days straight with access to behind teh scenes where we shot **** load with all the girls right before the show (most girls are like 6' tall and in hels are taller then me). Shot some famous people and such - basicaly no one knows who you are yet they all assume you are someone big (we got nice camera and sound equipment). With camera we can go anywhere and everyone LOVES it. Women, no matter how hot or attractive love to be in front of teh lens (gay men too...). I don't know i suppose i'm just rambling.
 

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So did you get any numbers or just film footage of hotties to wack off to later? ha ha. Im a fashion designer, just graduate from katherine gibbs in dec. (across the street from BP) can't wait to get my line out there so I can be surrounded by 6 foot hotties at the fashion conventions modeling my stuff, life is good..
 

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Don then you gonna be the first non-gay fashion designer....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Saga continues. Today i became paparazzi with my camera no further then 4 feet from Paris Hilton. Then on another show i spotted a babe in the crowd and as i'm casting attractive girl for a commercial gave her my business card so she can email me...

The best part is that yesterday i meet a AW who i had a crush on some time ago and she knowing it started rambling about another guy she fuc-ked... I was going to bring her in one one of these fashion shows (she really wanted to come) but since she couldn't keep her mouth shut about her fuc-king experience i stood her up... Haha!
 
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