CTApprentice
Don Juan
Hey guys I was wondering if I could get some advice on what to wear for my senior year(of course for school as well as when im hanging out on the weekends) ,im trying to change my style up a little bit.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
try www.kinowear.com
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
+1 for Kinowear.com
CTApprentice
Don Juan
Thanks for the suggestions guys
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DarthAngel707
Don Juan
Ok since your in high school, the "popular guy" dynamic exists so the easiest thing to do is:
A) Find out what the popular guys in your school are wearing
B) Start wearing it
Some people would say that your not being yourself, etc.. but it's high school and if you wear something too "out there" you risk being labeled as a weirdo canceling your chances of sex/ prom *****.
And the girls in HS are pre-programmed to respond to the kind of clothing that the popular guys wear just like you are pre-programmed to respond to halter tops and spaghetti straps that the popular girls wear.
A) Find out what the popular guys in your school are wearing
B) Start wearing it
Some people would say that your not being yourself, etc.. but it's high school and if you wear something too "out there" you risk being labeled as a weirdo canceling your chances of sex/ prom *****.
And the girls in HS are pre-programmed to respond to the kind of clothing that the popular guys wear just like you are pre-programmed to respond to halter tops and spaghetti straps that the popular girls wear.