"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fashion Section of Forum?

Fly By Night

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Why do we still not have a fashion section of the forum?

I was talking to a group of girls who seemed very "materialistic" (wearing expensive clothing/jewelry) and they were saying that they dress that way because they want the world to know how high they carry themselves and they are not low quality. Now whether they are high quality or not, they PERCEIVE guys who dress dorky, daft, tacky, and trashy as that because what else do they have to perceive you by?

I think a fashion section will be great for a lot of members who need help getting their foot in the door. I'm not the kind of guy to wear dress shirts and blazers everyday, but I still make sure I look on point with my outfits:

Here's an example of an outfit I'd wear.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ronaldo7

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I'm taking an educated guess by saying that the girls would most likely be talking about a guy wearing a dress shirt, etc. That outfit won't make you stand out. There are a lot of confused hippies out there. If you want to impress, you need to stand out. Try wearing an elegant, tailored if possible, dress shirt, throw a vest/blazer on top, and make your tie combines with your dress shirt. DS + vest or DS + blazer. It all depends on the look you want. Don't forget to use a pocket square as well if you go for the suit/blazer and tie. The tie clip is also important. Dress pants are a must. Try looking for a grey, dark, brown color. This is obviously depending on your outfit. Dress shoes to top it off. Oh, and cufflinks are a nice touch too.
 
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