“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fashion Question: What kind of shoes do you recommend that go with jeans?

13stepscfh

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I generally wear classic sneakers with my jeans but would like to go a level up from them. I am pretty ignorant in this department so any help would be appreciated. I am looking for a type of shoe that I could wear everyday to college or just out on the town.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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romangod

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Doc Martens.


Cheers!
 

Ridingthelightning

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European styles are always good. German especially.
 

FairShake

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New Balances. They're all I wear! Great running shoes, great-looking street shoes. Now that I think about it, they are my work shoes too and I'm on my feet about 12 out of 13 hours at work. I barely notice it most of the day.

Oh, and they're made in the USA (kinda).

Airwalks are cool too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PhunGar

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i generally dislike ppl who wear sneakers with jeans it just shows u have no real fashion taste. U said u go to college so a easy solution would be converses, but if u want to mix it up if u wear like collared shirts u can also wear like proper classy shoes but if u do that make sure that your jeans are of the right calibre of ur shoes
 

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air max 95's or casual wear. for shoes i'd get a few pair of aldo shoes, their stylish, have many styles and are also cheap enough to afford a few but expensive enough that people know the name and look nice.
 

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I would go with either some dark brown chelsea boots, wing tips (the more broguing the better) or some loafers. These will all look good paired with dark denim which looks much more smarter IMO.

Don't get black shoes as they will look too formal with jeans (unless they are black jeans), and don't shine them for the same reason.

Stick to either a boot cut, straight or classic fit jean. You don't want baggy jeans with dressier shoes.

If your jeans are more of a lighter shade of denim you can't go wrong with a simple pair of grey sneakers. think classic Converse, Lacoste and Adidas e.t.c (the less branding on them the better they will look)

White sneakers look rubbish paired with dark jeans and black sneakers also look terrible with a light pair of jeans (other way around is fine). As I said you can't go wrong with grey, it goes well with any shade of denim. HTH
 
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