I'm thinking of getting some type of a necklace. I think I'm pretty fashion savvy, but I have no idea what kind of necklace to get. I sometimes like to leave the top couple buttons of my shirt open and it would be cool to have something interesting showing there other than the peachfuzz on my chest, lol. Would also be cool to have something of a peacocking piece that women might comment on. Though I don't believe in going overboard with peacocking. Any recommendations?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fashion Question: Necklaces
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The peacock thing is no BS. In my early 20s, I started wearing the cross my grandfather was given when he was baptized. It's over 80 years old, stainless steel on a chain without a clasp. Sort of looks like a dogtag. I've never seen anything like it in stores and you know what....women absolutely LOVE it. A lot of FBs/gfs have told me it turns them on. Once I told them the story behind it they melt.
I started wearing it for sentimental value. It just happens to have an added benefit
Look for something unique. Invent a story behind it if it doesn't have one ready-made.
I started wearing it for sentimental value. It just happens to have an added benefit
Look for something unique. Invent a story behind it if it doesn't have one ready-made.i always leave a few buttons unbutton on my dress shirts if im dressed casual. its more comfortable that way. i've had a chain since i was 15. it a buddha necklace incased in silver attached to a silver shiny chain. its a part of me now that i barely notice it. people do ask about it.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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