"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fashion: multiple styles -- good or bad?

anonymous12345

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I have several different looks that I alternate between. I have for instance:
  • The "boyfriend" knitted sweater with a scarf some days when I don't feel like making an impression but be lowkey.
  • A screeching yellow jumper jacket with a black cap.
  • A purple blazer, but that "being perfect" thing and being a pretty moma boy I don't feel comfortable with any longer.
  • A knitted tattered waistcoat with a green Adidas training jacket. (All with Red Wings now during winter, otherwise a pair of Loakes)
These looks "are me", I feel perfectly comfortable wearing them, so no problem here.

In my social sphere there is a girl who is very "fashion conscious" and have constantly different looks. To me some alarm goes off, it feels as if something is wrong, like the way some say about girls that change hair colour often. Still, different looks speak to me, and I myself do the same, though to a lesser degree.

What are your thoughts on this? Good or bad? Am I over-analysing? Is it irrelevant?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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