"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HeyPachuco!

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Anybody here in the Fashion Buisness? I'm really into Fashion. Finding dead end paths into actually starting my own label. Alot of advisers I've seen tell me to start off working for someone/ or a Label and work my way off from there.

But I want establish a distinctive style and create my own Fashion concept, rather than work alongside someone elses ideas. I consider what Nigo (urban clothing Designer) has done is somewhere where I want to take my creativity. He started off selling T-shirts in a small store and giving them to his friends for free - then started getting extremely popular, then blew from there.

I'm heavily into Manga, Japan, Comics & Cartoons, Sneaker Culture, Pop Art, Household Goods, Star Wars memorabillia, Early Computer consoles and other unique concepts, thousands of profile work but have no fvcking clue about nailing it down into something constructive.


I'm really at a dead end here into what path to actually take, I'm still finishing my BTEC Multimedia Diploma this year, but in my heart of hearts, becoming a Fashion Designer (making my own apparell) is what I want to do. Just haven't taken the opportunity to pursue it, any advise on this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CaptainJ

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I'm guessing you want to own and run a Fashion business, rather than be just another cog in the corporation.

Therefore read Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. That should steer you in the right direction. Then begin reading books on how and where to find assets and accumulate wealth (not necessarily money). Then look to using your assets to start off your fashion business. Find successful people who have done this and work for them, get them to mentor you so you can learn. learning is the most important thing.
 

HeyPachuco!

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Thanks for you're reply CaptainJ,

I will take that, going to order it on Amazon this evening. Moreso, what could I do besides the logistical stuff, I mean like portfolio work and basic fashion buisness criteria at this moment in time. I don't really want to get into a buisness with just very little knowledge or work. I'm studying for my Multimedia BTEC, so apart from my portfolio work (practical), I havent got much to offer a buisness. Seems like its a meer luck thing whether they say "YES, come join us and we'll train you", I dont know many fashion buisnesses doing internships and apprenticeships and its HELL trying to get in contact with them if you haven't got a name.
 

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i think the whole purpose alot of people tell u to start off working under someone is to really learn the way a business is run/how to manage a business.

The reason why I believe in my skills with what i want to do in business so much si because i grew up under an entrepreneur who started multiple successful business's. I also went to business school and had internships. Just being creative and have unique designs will not be effective enough to hold your business together. There's a whole bunch of paperwork, legal fee's(protection from others and for yourself), financial reporting(taxes, etc.), etc. that you need done. There are plenty of big fashion companies in NYC that offer internships but i'm not sure if you'll understand how its run by working there but you will learn something from any job you take up. Even if you're a janitor you'll learn something....it just depends whether it will be a significant asset to you in the future or not.
 
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