"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fashion: hair cut. Short is better?

anonymous12345

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I don't think looks is a problem for me currently, but I suspect I can look younger by having a haircut that hides my poor hairline -- the front has and is diminishing. Got an athletic build, approaching ripped (in particular in face), have a 3-day shave. Currently, I have this cut, though less at the front:
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I'm consider switching to this:



It's all about poon. Votes, comments, ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A tan would help a lot to make crappy hairlines look less crappy.

In case your front isnt too bad you can try to just change hair cut and drop hair forward.
 

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Brushing hair backwards for a receding front is never a good idea. At least cut the top short enough to go more forward and sideways in front with possibly a lower part line to cover the hairline. You have the thickness for that and can cover at least 1/2” or more. Pic two obviously makes it more visible.

A high or receding front hairline is the main reason you still see some older women with younger looking frontal bang cuts.
 

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This is your best bet for a receding hairline.
Interesting fact for Shortcels: Moe was 5'3 1/2"
Larry, Joe, and Curly Joe were all 5'4".
Curly was 5'5".
And Shemp was the tallest Stooge, at 5'7".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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