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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fashion: hair cut. Short is better?

anonymous12345

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I don't think looks is a problem for me currently, but I suspect I can look younger by having a haircut that hides my poor hairline -- the front has and is diminishing. Got an athletic build, approaching ripped (in particular in face), have a 3-day shave. Currently, I have this cut, though less at the front:
My custom alt


I'm consider switching to this:



It's all about poon. Votes, comments, ideas?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Who Dares Win

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A tan would help a lot to make crappy hairlines look less crappy.

In case your front isnt too bad you can try to just change hair cut and drop hair forward.
 

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Brushing hair backwards for a receding front is never a good idea. At least cut the top short enough to go more forward and sideways in front with possibly a lower part line to cover the hairline. You have the thickness for that and can cover at least 1/2” or more. Pic two obviously makes it more visible.

A high or receding front hairline is the main reason you still see some older women with younger looking frontal bang cuts.
 

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This is your best bet for a receding hairline.
Interesting fact for Shortcels: Moe was 5'3 1/2"
Larry, Joe, and Curly Joe were all 5'4".
Curly was 5'5".
And Shemp was the tallest Stooge, at 5'7".
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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