"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Today I was bored so I decided to get another Backpage hooker. She was definitely hot because I only hire hot ones.

So while I was "doing it," I started thinking how far off I am from doing this with "regular girls." (Ones that I don't pay for).

I'm not really sure if that's just the way the world works. I don't think barely any guy can go around fvcking a bunch of hot girls for free. Maybe 1 out of a million guys can do that. Brad Pitt perhaps?

The best I've done recently is having small talk with Hooters waitresses. That's a far way off from sex. Even when girls sit next to me or even start a conversation, it never leads anywhere.

I possibly could get the occasional free Tinder hookup if I really tried (I have in the past), but I don't go on there much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RichardTheFrog said:
Today I was bored so I decided to get another Backpage hooker. She was definitely hot because I only hire hot ones.

So while I was "doing it," I started thinking how far off I am from doing this with "regular girls." (Ones that I don't pay for).

I'm not really sure if that's just the way the world works. I don't think barely any guy can go around fvcking a bunch of hot girls for free. Maybe 1 out of a million guys can do that. Brad Pitt perhaps?

The best I've done recently is having small talk with Hooters waitresses. That's a far way off from sex. Even when girls sit next to me or even start a conversation, it never leads anywhere.

I possibly could get the occasional free Tinder hookup if I really tried (I have in the past), but I don't go on there much.
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That sounds like a mood-killer to have thoughts like that during a session. Why even bother with that if you think that way? Do something else instead if you are bored.
 
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