"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fancy dress

Wodan

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Anyone been out in fancy dress before?

I was apprehensive about it but did it for a friends birthday and was amazed by the increase in attention, i dressed up like buggsy malone (gangster) and had girls on hen nights and stuff asking if they could get theyre picture taken with me.

Also i noticed quite a few girls that wanted my atttention would just put my hat on and start talking to me.

All in all it was a really good night out with many opportunities, I would especially recommend it to guys that arent good at the approach as its easier to start conversation flowing, What outfits do you guys think would be the most succesful though? Im thinking fireman :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, it makes a differerence. And I know exactly what you mean about how suddenly people seem to act different around you.

I don't know if it's the actual clothes, though. It could be that it makes *you* feel different, and that confidence is reflected in how people treat you.

I had a surreal experience last week after I got back from a job interview wearing a suit. I'll post about it later.
 

Wodan

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I think theres alot of reasons why it worked, for instance a friend dressed up as jack sparrow... alot of women like johnny depp and they seemed alot more intrested in him that night lol
 
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