"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fancy dress

Wodan

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Anyone been out in fancy dress before?

I was apprehensive about it but did it for a friends birthday and was amazed by the increase in attention, i dressed up like buggsy malone (gangster) and had girls on hen nights and stuff asking if they could get theyre picture taken with me.

Also i noticed quite a few girls that wanted my atttention would just put my hat on and start talking to me.

All in all it was a really good night out with many opportunities, I would especially recommend it to guys that arent good at the approach as its easier to start conversation flowing, What outfits do you guys think would be the most succesful though? Im thinking fireman :p
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Yes, it makes a differerence. And I know exactly what you mean about how suddenly people seem to act different around you.

I don't know if it's the actual clothes, though. It could be that it makes *you* feel different, and that confidence is reflected in how people treat you.

I had a surreal experience last week after I got back from a job interview wearing a suit. I'll post about it later.
 

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I think theres alot of reasons why it worked, for instance a friend dressed up as jack sparrow... alot of women like johnny depp and they seemed alot more intrested in him that night lol
 
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