"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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fancy dress: yes or no?

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seethehoop

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Me and a mate are going to a fancy dress party this weekend.

I'm up for getting dressed up he's not so keen.

We are both into game and I see fancy dress as a way to show that you can be fun and not take yourself too seriously.

I think it will increase you social status but i wondered what others thoughts on it were?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gro0ver

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Definitely dress up, way more fun.

Focus on having fun with your bros not gettin pvss and you will get more pvss AND have more fun :D
 
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I think he is actually going to wear a fancy dress to the party.
 
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Duracell_Bunny

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DO IT!

Regardless of doing it for a fancy dress party specificity or not it works wonders. It is no way my thing but did it once with everyone from the footy club for a team members birthday. Went to a bar after and chicks were approaching us all the time, taking lots of photos and fighting for attention.

Make sure its something that stands out or is utterly ridiculous. You want to be that person were everyone in the room goes "Hey look at that guy!, ha ha".
 
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Stop being such a f@ggot op.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamTheHobit

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Are you really asking a bunch of stranger for permission to go to a party?

Cmon.
 
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seethehoop

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SamTheHobit said:
Are you really asking a bunch of stranger for permission to go to a party?

Cmon.
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I ask again. Can you read?

It is fairly apparent that the answer is no. Otherwise you would realise I'm not asking permission on anything. I'm merely starting a light debate on who thinks fancy dress is good for game or not.

Personally, i think it is very good for game.

Now assuming you are not a troll, your opinion is welcomed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DanZy

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Dressing up makes starting a conversation a good deal easier. It also makes you far more likely to be opened. Do it, tell your friend that he's a pvssy and should dress up too.
 
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Put it this way. Would you rather look at a good looking woman in a little black dress and 5 in heels, or the same woman in flip flops and a pair of sweats that say "PINK" on the a$$?

There is your answer.
 
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