"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Orlandomac

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Hey gentlemen I was hoping that you guys could help us out.

There are so many great coaches on this forum and we were scouting all the best forums around to see who are the most elite coaches.

SeductionHallofFame.com is having quarterly Awards for elite Forum & Pro Coaches and DJ being one of the most elite we were definitely very interested in showcasing the fine talent here to the world.

So if you can each give us your top 5 coaches Professionals selling a product and Forum based that have helped you out immensely that would be fantastic.

Voting should start in March, we are just after your opinion to make the best lists now.

Cheers
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I thought there were others that had products off this board. At least they did back when I used to come here regularly years ago.

Anyways...

Who are the top 5 Forum Coaches.. posters that you feel have helped you the most?
 
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dbot, rollo thomassi, str8up, pook (who is nowhere to be found), senior fingers and a number of others.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Great gentlemen keep them coming I will round down to the top 3 when I go to vote.. so whoever the top 3 are that get the most votes.. is who we will put forward to voting..

Thanx again...
 
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yuppaz said:
pook (who is nowhere to be found)
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Sorta found him:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157259

Only few, very few guys sell their products on here. The guys I'm about to list sell 0 dating products simply because they don't believe in making money off something as simple as dating advice for men:

- Rollo Tomassi
- Pook
- Interceptor
- Guru1000
- Senor Fingers

For a 6th spot, I would throw myself in the mix just because I'm vain and self-important like that. :cool:
 
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Thanx for the clarification Bat..

Having coached now for almost 15 years the majority of that unpaid.. I can definitely appreciate Forum Coaches.. just as you do, because they give of their own free time.

Part of the reason the Hall was launched was to support those Coaches that have helped so many.

That is the reason for these Awards...

Cheers
 
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In no particular order, KontrollerX, Rollo Tomassi & Interceptor.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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without doubt DonS and WC2..

they both seem like cool dudes who really know what they are talking about..
 
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