falling for your best friend.. how to tell her?

[Darth Seductus]

how do you tell one of your best friends youve become romantically interested in her??

im afraid of screwing up the friendship .. shes really one of the best friends ive ever had, i dont know what id do if our friendship was damaged

ughhh

i dont know

ive never had a romantic interest in a girl i was friends with first...

 

[Migel]

You don't tell her anything, you become a MAN that she will fall for and things will happen naturally.
If you don't understand what I wrote read the DJ Bible (http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/) before you get flamed.

 

[Bvbidd]

What do you want with her? Ask yourself that first.

I mean if you just love her, then you could just love her as a friend or whatever.
If you want to do her, then make that obvious.

Either way, I'd get out of being BEST friends.

 

[Phyzzle]

Don't tell her directly!

Best Policy:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm

 

[Bobbles]

That post by fingers is ace. In short I would say don't tell her under any circumstances. If you that desperate just invite her out for a meal in the evening and have a couple of drinks. Walk her to her door at the end of the night and kiss her. If she rebuffs you just blame it on the alcohol. If she doesn't then you've done it. But remember, absolutely NO speaches or declarations of attraction. Ever, with anyone.