"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Falling for/like her a lot but it's scaring the crap out of me

chris2for

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I met this girl about 2 months ago and everything just feels easy and right with her. We've had some miscommunication blips but that's it. She's beautiful, funny, smart, and caring. Just a real good girl. We just spent 4 days together and I want to invite her on this trip with me next month.

The thing is I like her a lot and might even be falling for her (not too sure though). The thing is it's scaring the sh*t out of me. So much so where I just want to pull back or date other girls just to keep my emotions in check. I know she'd probably think this is bs though...

Is liking someone so much that it scares you actually BS though? Has anyone ever felt like this? What did you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

CMNILS87

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I think you should take a step back and ask yourself objectively if she'd be a good girlfriend. You've been together a couple months and she has the nice girl facade up. You're feeling all emotional from lust, not love. You need more hobbies and stuff to do.
 
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