Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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falling for her again. dunno what to do

dre007

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Ok so this is the deal.

Ive been really close with my ex girlfriend for the past month talking to her online and over txt. She goes to college in the next state over. So what happens is that she decides to come home this past weekend and invites me over her house to watch a movie. I get there at 11pm and we start making out hardcore and i tried to get her to put out by rubbing her breasts and kissing her neck and she was moaning but when i tried to unhook her bra strap then she said no and kept going with the kissing. So i left friday nite around 4 without getting any.

I was denied again last nite and this time i was able to feel up her ass but still she did want me to take off her bra no matter how hard i turned her on. maybe because it was her parents were sleeping upstairs. btw, the reason why she broke up with me is because i didnt make a move on her ever.

since ive been chilling with her so regularly, i think im falling for her again and i feel like im fvcked because she goes to another state for college and i dont see her that often. she told me she wants a bf and is tired of hookups but i dunno if i culd trust her again. shes gettin to my head again and i just want it to stop. what shuld i do...i mean do u think an ltr is worth it if she goes to another college? i dont wanna feel jealous and think of her when she goes to parties n sh1t. because i know she will have to make decisions when she is drunk off her ass and i might get played out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best thing you can do now is start spinning plates and presume that nothing will happen with her. You may have come across as being AFC so she might just like you as a freind and not want to get to close to you.
 

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selfmademob said:
STFU you fag about calling him an AFC. You dont know him. As to the original poster, just go out and hook up with girls and live your life man, no reason to worry about one girl.
Lol you seem intelligent!

He was displaying AFC behaviour and I'm trying to do him a favour.
 
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