"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Adrian

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I recently had a **** buddy, really hot chick... one of those bar chicks that seem to be connected to the scene, bar owners, promotion companies, etc... anyways, smoking hot, but I knew her M.O. , she's promiscious, she thinks she's really manipulative, but if you aren't putting that ***** on a pedestal her games crumble faaast lol... ANYWAYS..

She was giving me the "I really with you would call me more often, and come to my house!" or... "I don't want a boyfriend, you know, just someone that calls me and comes to my house, you know?" lol... The situation was great for me.. she'd call me nightly and come to my house to get banged the fvck out.. I even spent like 20 minutes on the phone arguing with her cause i was busy and didn't want to bone her one night... anyways... she gave me that ultimatum... and I peaced!

I stopped calling, I chilled... even when it was happening i gave her ice when she gave me emotions, learned her that she wasn't LTR material for me... she eventually stopped calling lol.... and you know what happened???

this ended in november

recently she MSN's me talking about how she wants to hook up and all that (games), i tell her to cut the BS and state her intentions, she tells me she has a new guy but shes always thinking about me etc and she realyl liked me when we were hooking up.... I tell her straight up i wasn't looking for a rltshp in nov, she gets all upset..

fvck her, she's a peice of a$$ and thats how I will always treat her

bottom line is... it's not a Fvck BUDDY if you are "intimate" and not in the sexual sense, in that emotional sense... you have to have ICE game to make sure you aren't leading these birds on, or just be honest... or you can be a d!ck and lie your face off and end up really hurting someone
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calm down, lets not turn this rape into a murder.


finally someone who understands. this post really brought a smile to my face. you don't get intimate with hors you treat them exactly like the person above has exemplified.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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