I would like to start this semester off with a few new tips under my belt . So anyone, with any creative/original tips or suggestions for hitting on girls first day in class, id quite appreciate them. Then ill post tomarrow evening on how it went. Here's some info if needed - im in college, not high school. Iv been going for a few semesters now. Im taking U.S. history to 1865, descriptive astronomy, english 102, american government, astronomy lab & judo.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Fall semester starting tomarrow..
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mjfan12
Don Juan
Im also looking for tips. About to start my second year.
I have had some bad luck in the past. Usually there aren't any girls hot enough to spark my interest inside my classes.
The first day of class I usually just get in class and pick any seat. Usually the good girls sit everywhere but near me. And once we pick our seats, they usually remain unchanged for the remainder of the semester.
I hope to see some good looking freshmen tommorow!
I have had some bad luck in the past. Usually there aren't any girls hot enough to spark my interest inside my classes.
The first day of class I usually just get in class and pick any seat. Usually the good girls sit everywhere but near me. And once we pick our seats, they usually remain unchanged for the remainder of the semester.
I hope to see some good looking freshmen tommorow!
Most of the time i dont even meet girls in the actual class. Sure it helps to sit near to them. If u happen to get a hot girl next to you just relate something to them. For instance:
"I bet this class is gonna blow.."
Most of the time I meet girls at the student hangout area. At my school its "winchester alley." Your best bet is to just randomly start a conversation with girls in the student hangout facillity.
"I bet this class is gonna blow.."
Most of the time I meet girls at the student hangout area. At my school its "winchester alley." Your best bet is to just randomly start a conversation with girls in the student hangout facillity.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Where would you guys is a good place to get girls on campus, I am starting my freshmen year tomorrow, and just wanted to know where you guys find chicks
this is what i learned last semester and it worked well:Originally posted by Lost1
Most of the time i dont even meet girls in the actual class. Sure it helps to sit near to them. If u happen to get a hot girl next to you just relate something to them. For instance:
"I bet this class is gonna blow.."
dont be afraid to speak up and answers questions, even if your wrong. now i dont mean try and answer everything, but you can really stand out by TRYING.
i actually find it works better to say "im looking forward to this class" or something positive b/c in college you get to choose your corses so most of the time your in there with people who WANT to be there. If you say that to a girl with a negative outlook on the class just suggest that they stick with you and they will enjoy their time there.
talk to everyone, especially all the girls. its kind of like talking up the friends of the girl you really want. if you make them all like you then the one who you ask out will feel that much better or something like that.
STAND OUT. and dont be afraid to do well in the class. girls in college usually think a guy who is smart, or who tries in the class, is sexy. Now i wouldnt go in and be like "i spent all weekend studying" but the kid who gets looked down usually (not always) is the one who is like "i knew about the test, **** it, i wanted to party!" cuz then everyone is like "well wtf are u even in this class, son?"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
selfmademob
Banned
Same here man, I am going to a college in San Antonio with over 10,000 people and it's my freshman year. Is it a good idea to find a male friend to help you pick up girls at college?Originally posted by brenbaus
Where would you guys is a good place to get girls on campus, I am starting my freshmen year tomorrow, and just wanted to know where you guys find chicks
Good tips on those links I liked them. I will share one since it seems many of us are in the same boat here - At my college, our cafeteria is in the student union building which is our student "hang out" place but not really since it kinda sucks.
Anyways I usually go get lunch there, and after getting my lunch I eye the place down a little bit for girls sitting alone, then once I find one ill go over there and pull out a chair, and ask "is anyone sitting here?" most of the time they say no, go ahead & sit down. Sometimes they are waiting for friends but still say sit - havent been rejected on this approach yet - I expect to get some once I try it on doubles.
Anyways once you sit down there with her you can talk to her about whatever you please - most the time I say that smells good what they are eating & ask what is then fluff about that for a minute then try to steer the conversation towards her, such as her major, what does she do, is she in a soroity, blah blah. Then once you feel you can get her #, look at your cell phone, or watch then say you need to go but it was nice talking to her. I'll usually say you seem pretty cool we should hang out sometime give me your number, I still find my self choking on asking for their # about 1/4 of the time, or if the convo wasnt that great.
If they drink alchol ill talk to her bars/alchol then try and get her to go out that night if possible. SO far doing that, iv had several flake and 1 actually end up going out that night. Anyways that's my little lunch time tip - I hope some of you use it and have much success!
Anyways I usually go get lunch there, and after getting my lunch I eye the place down a little bit for girls sitting alone, then once I find one ill go over there and pull out a chair, and ask "is anyone sitting here?" most of the time they say no, go ahead & sit down. Sometimes they are waiting for friends but still say sit - havent been rejected on this approach yet - I expect to get some once I try it on doubles.
Anyways once you sit down there with her you can talk to her about whatever you please - most the time I say that smells good what they are eating & ask what is then fluff about that for a minute then try to steer the conversation towards her, such as her major, what does she do, is she in a soroity, blah blah. Then once you feel you can get her #, look at your cell phone, or watch then say you need to go but it was nice talking to her. I'll usually say you seem pretty cool we should hang out sometime give me your number, I still find my self choking on asking for their # about 1/4 of the time, or if the convo wasnt that great.
If they drink alchol ill talk to her bars/alchol then try and get her to go out that night if possible. SO far doing that, iv had several flake and 1 actually end up going out that night. Anyways that's my little lunch time tip - I hope some of you use it and have much success!