"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it me or is mostly everyone in high school so fake? I mean, dont get me wrong, I have friends and hang out with them- but when it comes down to it at the very end, I cant trust all of them. So many of them are shady and just look for the "good times," and others are really sincere and genuine, but thats rare. Ive met and known so many people, and what ive noticed is that they all talk about each other yet act so cool around each other. Its like everyone just wants to be liked by everyone, but I cant lower myself to be fake like them. Im more the black and white type, if I like you- you'll know and same if I dont. Many times people just want to hang out which is cool, its whatever, but Id rather spend alone time with my girlfriend or family. Friends are essential to life, but many times those friends- arent really your friends. It sucks and it makes me feel alone sometimes. Despite the fact I hang out with them and have a girlfriend, I stop to contemplate and think- the only people I really have are my family, a select few (2-5) amount of true friends, and my girlfriend. What is the deal?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The deal is that they are trying to qualify themselves to others, when they should have others trying to qualify to themselves.
 

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I know what you mean, man. Sometimes I feel as though my friends would sacrifice me to increase their game. Thanks to the DJ Bible however, I just look at them as AFCs and am quite good with the old body language and what its communicating. Heh, they don't understand why the ladies like the Danman when I don't make the moves. :)
 

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in regards to this comment:

"what ive noticed is that they all talk about each other yet act so cool around each other."

Ive never talked about other people like some people do im just never interested and find it boring talking about others. I dont need to prove myself to people by talking about how so and so did this or that to make myself feel better or something because i dont need to prove myself to anyone.

And this is how i see it.

Sheep = talk about other people.

Genuine = talk about ideas and stupid stuff just to have abit of fun

See the genuine people entertain themselves were sheep rely on other people for entertainment.
 
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