"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Their are three different girls that i was talking to who gave me the wrong number...


1.) hb8 She's in my math class she ask me for a pen and i said sure but give me your number first. She wrote it on my hand went home with a sense of pride lol. But it was a wrong number :/ Fail:mad:


2.) HB8 She's also in a math class but a different one tho she ask me for a dollar wtf and. I said give me your number and I'll get back to you she gave me the number and i was shock cause I ment it az a joke. Oh well no harm done



3.) HB7 she was walking near my bus stop so I walk up to her but had to hurry up fast because my bus had arrive. So i make a little small talk then ask for the number at first she refuses. Then I notice she was selling candy so I said what if I needa buy candy from you. I got the number or so i say. Got a nice warm welcome from the operator the number you have dialed is out of service. Fail



Well my spirit is still high because I still have other girls I talk to oh well. :rockon:

Can anybody add anything I should of done or need to work with? Thanks


All in all i had a pretty good laugh about this with my friends.:crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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These girls aren't giving you a number because they like you, they are doing it because you tell them that's the only way they are getting what they asked for. You are bribing them. That isn't going to work.

You aren't creating any connection with them. Girl 1 needed a pen, so she did what she needed to get it. Girl 2 wanted a dollar, so she did what she needed to get it. Girl 3 was selling candy, so she did what she needed to do that. None of them were about her wanting to spend time with you. You did nothing to show them your value. You were just an easy obstacle to what they wanted.
 
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PDubb75 said:
These girls aren't giving you a number because they like you, they are doing it because you tell them that's the only way they are getting what they asked for. You are bribing them. That isn't going to work.

You aren't creating any connection with them. Girl 1 needed a pen, so she did what she needed to get it. Girl 2 wanted a dollar, so she did what she needed to get it. Girl 3 was selling candy, so she did what she needed to do that. None of them were about her wanting to spend time with you. You did nothing to show them your value. You were just an easy obstacle to what they wanted.
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That makes a lot of sense I see what you mean. Thanks
 
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Try talking with them. Get to know them, know what they like but not to point of fb stalking. I usually know if a girl is comfortable with me, is when i touch them. But not like their boobs (duh) but like hands around them. if they don't push you away/shudder, then ur safe =)
 
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