"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fake It !!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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ASSUME A ViRTUE AND IT BECOMES YOURS said SHAKESPEARE
Now everytime i go out sarging i pretend i am an AMERICAN

even though the Americans are under fire because of their politics , the french dig their films lifestyle etc

now i ve been an American for two years , i have ACTUALLY become one i speak like one behave like one people look at me differently it is FREAKY it really is

WHEN SARGING I CAN T BEHAVE ANY OTHER WAY

fake it until you make it !!!

so put on a sexy FRENCH ACCENT AND GO OUT SARGING THEY LL THINK YOU ARE UNIQUE INDEED
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Donnie Darko said:
"As you think, you shall become." - Pook
I know I need to learn that lesson.... lol. Of course, I think I already have... the hard way!

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Being A Regular Guy

if you re just ordinary women won t be attracted to you ( unless you re very goodlooking )
women got to feel they are being transported to a world of fantasy

so if you re the guy down the road who s trying to pick up on her she won t respond or be amused

you talk to her about your foreignness ( being an american or a frenchman ) she ll definitely take notice
if you ask her for directions or about the best restaurant in town she ll be very happy to help you ( people love helping a " foreign " person " more so than a member of their own family or entourage also they they want to give a good impression of their own country )
 
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