"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fake ID's?

idkmybffjill

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What do you guys do about this? I'm at a large university, where a lot of people I know (especially attractive girls) have fake ID's to go to bars and stuff. Unfortunately, I don't know anyone that looks like me (I'm 6'2, 230lbs, half white, half Indian.....rare to find a person my size/build of my race haha).

Should I just wait till I'm 21?? I'm still 19 and a junior in college (I'll turn 20 in two months)....it'll be fall of my senior year before I turn 21.

Do you trust any of the websites where you pay like $100 and they say they'll make one for you?

I wanna hear everyone here's thoughts. Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GoodButNotGreat

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nobody that looks like you? start checking your friend's friends facebook, or w/e find ppl who ur friends know..offer them like 100 bux to report their id lost to the state dept..they'll pay like 25 for a new one and net profit 75...most would b down, i helped a friend get one thats of my friend..just ask around man
 

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How is this a tip?

Moreover, what does this have anything to do with being a man or getting in a girls pants? Bars are the last place you should be looking for quality girls.
 

Homewerk

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Jon55 said:
How is this a tip?

Moreover, what does this have anything to do with being a man or getting in a girls pants? Bars are the last place you should be looking for quality girls.

So where do you suggest he should go? At his situation?
 

idkmybffjill

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Jon55 said:
How is this a tip?

Moreover, what does this have anything to do with being a man or getting in a girls pants? Bars are the last place you should be looking for quality girls.
I realize it isn't the ideal place, but it's still a good way to socialize. I'm still not too comfortable with paying for/buying a fake ID. But what alternatives do you suggest?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Berlex

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Teen drinking, is very bad. Yo, I got a fake I.D. though, yeah!
 

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I suggest you don't do it. It is a felony if you get caught doing it. Plus, a true DJ don't engage in things like this. A rule is a rule, wait till you're 21 and party the night-off on that birthday.
 

GoodButNotGreat

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idkmybffjill said:
I realize it isn't the ideal place, but it's still a good way to socialize. I'm still not too comfortable with paying for/buying a fake ID. But what alternatives do you suggest?
if your not comfortable why are u asking the question? dont waste our time
 
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