check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i was intrested in a girl, i aproched her i made more aproches and i made moves but it happend slowly dragging on over a matter of weeks, even months. I seriously do not think this is the reason for my failure.
I follow all the rules of sosuave i try and be dj but i failed the whole time i was doing stuff i was already thinking im doing somthing wrong and even starting to know what it was, but i just never improved on it and never new just quite how significant it was.
Once i failed (and when i asked her out to hang out she said i dont know i said is that a yes or no and she said take it as a no) i thought about the situation a bit, i actuly had a dream that she had a crush on my best friend and thye where allways together and made out etc, when i woke up i was so rleived it was a dream and didnt give a dam about her just that my best freind was not going out with her. (although when i calmed down a bit i realised i still have feelings for her)
well after waking up from the dream, i had an insight on the situation, the reason which i am 99% sure is why i failed.
Well i sat down i talked to her, actuly i used very little kino at all just the odd touching her shoulder from time to time, by time to time i mean next to none probably 5-6 times and i have talked to her quite a lot.
well i also noticed we where never exactly sitting very close to each other, only maybe on 1 occasion when we where standing up.
I have never put my arm around her never flirted, even thou the way i went about it she was probably aware im intrsted i still never SAID anything to portray that.
Maybe parlty a lack of confidence, but i totaly neglected doing all this, you must treat her like a girlfreind if you want her to be your girlfreind. BY doing the things i failed to do.
She will not be your girlfreind or date you if you are not capable of what she wants, which are the bits i neglected, the diffrence between a freind and boy freind.
If you buy a car off of someone you will not buy it unless you know it drives, driving is what a car does so if it fails to do that you would not buy it.
being a boy freind is whata boy freind does if you fail to do that she will not have you as a boyfreind.
you will not buy the car till you see it can drive.
she will not want you as a boyfreind till she sees you are capable of being one.
I think this is one of those things you do not relise your doing wrong or its importance untill you really get it wrong like i did, i failed it for weeks and weeks.
I follow all the rules of sosuave i try and be dj but i failed the whole time i was doing stuff i was already thinking im doing somthing wrong and even starting to know what it was, but i just never improved on it and never new just quite how significant it was.
Once i failed (and when i asked her out to hang out she said i dont know i said is that a yes or no and she said take it as a no) i thought about the situation a bit, i actuly had a dream that she had a crush on my best friend and thye where allways together and made out etc, when i woke up i was so rleived it was a dream and didnt give a dam about her just that my best freind was not going out with her. (although when i calmed down a bit i realised i still have feelings for her)
well after waking up from the dream, i had an insight on the situation, the reason which i am 99% sure is why i failed.
Well i sat down i talked to her, actuly i used very little kino at all just the odd touching her shoulder from time to time, by time to time i mean next to none probably 5-6 times and i have talked to her quite a lot.
well i also noticed we where never exactly sitting very close to each other, only maybe on 1 occasion when we where standing up.
I have never put my arm around her never flirted, even thou the way i went about it she was probably aware im intrsted i still never SAID anything to portray that.
Maybe parlty a lack of confidence, but i totaly neglected doing all this, you must treat her like a girlfreind if you want her to be your girlfreind. BY doing the things i failed to do.
She will not be your girlfreind or date you if you are not capable of what she wants, which are the bits i neglected, the diffrence between a freind and boy freind.
If you buy a car off of someone you will not buy it unless you know it drives, driving is what a car does so if it fails to do that you would not buy it.
being a boy freind is whata boy freind does if you fail to do that she will not have you as a boyfreind.
you will not buy the car till you see it can drive.
she will not want you as a boyfreind till she sees you are capable of being one.
I think this is one of those things you do not relise your doing wrong or its importance untill you really get it wrong like i did, i failed it for weeks and weeks.