Synthesis
Don Juan
How about a non-success forum where people just ***** and complain about all the crappy things that girls have done to them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Failure forum!
- Thread starter Synthesis
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
trickynick
Master Don Juan
EXTNE on this idea! Way too negative. We hear enough frustrated people whinning anyway without sactioning it with it's own forum.
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You either own the game or it owns you!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
Synthesis
Don Juan
I was just joking.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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Sometimes we learn more from our failures than our successes. Good judgement comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgement. I think that there is something to be said for a person who posts the areas in which they are having problems or failures, so that the DJ board as a whole can examine their mistakes and learn from them.
I don't know that I would recommend a whole forum for it though. They seem to fit in okay in the Discussion forum. But there is definitely a value to failure stories.
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CASANOVA
"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire
"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
I don't know that I would recommend a whole forum for it though. They seem to fit in okay in the Discussion forum. But there is definitely a value to failure stories.
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CASANOVA
"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire
"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Maybe a flame forum where we can stick you guys, sixpakGQ and wyldfire for an hour and see who comes out still standing?
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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.