Synthesis
Don Juan
How about a non-success forum where people just ***** and complain about all the crappy things that girls have done to them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Failure forum!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
trickynick
Master Don Juan
EXTNE on this idea! Way too negative. We hear enough frustrated people whinning anyway without sactioning it with it's own forum.
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You either own the game or it owns you!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
Synthesis
Don Juan
I was just joking.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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Sometimes we learn more from our failures than our successes. Good judgement comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgement. I think that there is something to be said for a person who posts the areas in which they are having problems or failures, so that the DJ board as a whole can examine their mistakes and learn from them.
I don't know that I would recommend a whole forum for it though. They seem to fit in okay in the Discussion forum. But there is definitely a value to failure stories.
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CASANOVA
"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire
"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
I don't know that I would recommend a whole forum for it though. They seem to fit in okay in the Discussion forum. But there is definitely a value to failure stories.
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CASANOVA
"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire
"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Maybe a flame forum where we can stick you guys, sixpakGQ and wyldfire for an hour and see who comes out still standing?
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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.