"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi guys i joined this forum because i just can't stand feeling alone most of my life. I am have never had a long term relationship and its been months since i last kissed a girl. I am 30 years of age and it feels like no girl will ever want to date me because i left it too late. I'm actually not a bad looking guy, I make a decent income, I live alone, I work out most days and have a body i am very proud but when i go out to bars with my friends, they usually go off chatting to women. They are not really the social type of guys as they just prefer to chat up women and visit at least 5 different bars in one night to check out the talent available.

There are times i feel uncomfortable going out with them, aside from that i enjoy there company but i'd like to be able to feel comfortable chatting up a girl in a bar without feeling like a complete tool. But even in bars and clubs it is hard to find a nice girl because some of them can be so bitc*y because when i do try to talk to them they either say very little or completely ignore you like you are not even there. I'm usually confident around people i know and they enjoy my company but women scare me and i know it shouldn't feel this way but they do. I can barely make eye contact with women. My thoughts are messed up and i really need to solve this problem as it is making me feel worse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova said:
Scroll down to the bottom, click on the link that says "DJ Bible", and read.

If you want a jumpstart, download the DJ Bootcamp and do that.
Looks like more PUA bull**** theory that obviously never works in the real world.
 

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dark angel said:
Looks like more PUA bull**** theory that obviously never works in the real world.
Honestly, you come here for advice and then start throwing sh1t at people? Like really? DJ Bible is filled with lots of good insight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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