"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi guys i joined this forum because i just can't stand feeling alone most of my life. I am have never had a long term relationship and its been months since i last kissed a girl. I am 30 years of age and it feels like no girl will ever want to date me because i left it too late. I'm actually not a bad looking guy, I make a decent income, I live alone, I work out most days and have a body i am very proud but when i go out to bars with my friends, they usually go off chatting to women. They are not really the social type of guys as they just prefer to chat up women and visit at least 5 different bars in one night to check out the talent available.

There are times i feel uncomfortable going out with them, aside from that i enjoy there company but i'd like to be able to feel comfortable chatting up a girl in a bar without feeling like a complete tool. But even in bars and clubs it is hard to find a nice girl because some of them can be so bitc*y because when i do try to talk to them they either say very little or completely ignore you like you are not even there. I'm usually confident around people i know and they enjoy my company but women scare me and i know it shouldn't feel this way but they do. I can barely make eye contact with women. My thoughts are messed up and i really need to solve this problem as it is making me feel worse.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova said:
Scroll down to the bottom, click on the link that says "DJ Bible", and read.

If you want a jumpstart, download the DJ Bootcamp and do that.
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Looks like more PUA bull**** theory that obviously never works in the real world.
 
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dark angel said:
Looks like more PUA bull**** theory that obviously never works in the real world.
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Honestly, you come here for advice and then start throwing sh1t at people? Like really? DJ Bible is filled with lots of good insight.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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