Failed Once, Try again? i need advice

[ppgofreely]

this is long, life story (beware)

hey, i'm currently in high school and i'm bent on this one chick.
My social status is great, i'm quite popular, i kno tons of people and interact with many girls all the time... but this is the thing

in my previous year, i met this girl in one of my classes and had a thing for her(this is pre-suave). it became quite obvious that i was interested and when i asked her out, she kinda turned me down. Well after the summer, i kinda got over her and all was well, then school started again and the feelings came flooding back.

things with me and her are good, we talk and are really close, but i'm not sure whether or not to try asking her out again. Nowadays, i feel i have been less desperate, been playin the field, and even been workin things with her best friends, all in an attempt to show her that i could careless about the outcome, so my dilenma is now, show i try again and ask her out, or maybe just let it rest. I thought i had built enough social status with ehr cuz i'm the man!... whenever i wlak into class, i'm the one everyone sees, i'm teh ****, and yet she turned me down last year. So i still don't understand or know if i have a chance.

My main issues are: i could turn her down and totally ignore her, possibly maybe making her notice me once i'm gone, or... i could just have fun, continue to chill with her, and talk to her on the phone and stuff and just enjjoy my high school days, forgeting about making a "relationship".... but deep inside i kno tahst what i want....

so tell me, do i or do i not go for this chick, for the SECOND TIME after she turned me down? I still afraid cuz the ball is in her court, because i asked her out, she knows i have a thing for her, so prizing has really been a hell to create. the only thing i've done is mack on her friends and many of my other girls infront of her... What do i do?

 

[Anomalous]

You got to make her want you, to the point where she is begging for it.

A good way to ask a girl out is to invite her, to come with you,BUT you were going to do it anyways.

You: Hey HB, im going to the movies this friday, want to "tag" along.
HER: Sure.........
: No..........
YOU: Ok she you friday.
: Alright, see you monday.



When you say do you want to tag along, it shows that you were going to go regardless of her answer.

 

[wavejams007]

Or you could just do it like some like ido sometimes, be stubborn and keep asking until she either gets a restraining order or says yes. I have only done this once or twice, but it really depends on how well you can judge another person's tolerance level.