drift king
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I tried to be slick and outside my college campus tried to pick up a girl at night 2 days ago walking from 1 gate to another, though it was right outside the campus she couldn't know/tell if i was a student there or just a creepy guy.
Because it was at night girls seem to get more scared, I was unfortunate cos the sun only just set literally 1/2 hour beforehand and i maybe may have got a better response.
she refused to talk to me, pretending she didn't speak english. Then i finally opened her up by speaking her language, but she still wasn't very open. She was all dressed up in a short skirt heels etc maybe just came back from a date.
when we got to the next gate she wanted to walk in another direction away from me to go back to her dorms and i was going in the opposite direction, i got a name and everything but she was telling me in her language 'i need to go home now.. so bye bye'
and im like 'wait wait.. so u married?'
she laughs.. thinks for a split sec then says 'yes' then i walk away
shes such a liar. especially wearing an outfit that skimpy.
fast forward to yesterday, i saw her walking on campus looking glum shoulders slouched back, she was walking in opposite direction to me and about 10 feet from me so as we kinda passed i was checking her out.. she eventually looked round and smiled and nodded, but i think she did that cos she thought i might know her i.e. as a classmate/friend shes met but forgotten who it was so was polite by nodding.
i didn't go up to her and talk tho i should have.
anyway later that day in the afternoon i saw her again walking in front of me going back to her dorms, i was heading that way myself however it felt really awkward so i walked faster past her cos i didn't want her to think i was following her, as i passed i looked back, then said something to her in english then tried to in her language but cos i got muddled up i stumbled on my words she looked confused and cross eyed trying to figure out what i was saying, this went on for about 5 secs and she carried on walking past me then saying 'i have to go to my room, bye bye'
the prob was she was directly in front of me already and cos i needed to go to the dorms it seemed like i was following her in and creeping her out. (in this situation should you not carry on as planned i.e. go into the dorms? i felt i was creeping her out but i had to go there too! but to her she must have felt i was following her) i tried saying something again from behind her but i realise now that lowers my value, when we got to the lifts (there are 2 side by side) i did not take the lift she took i decided to wait and take the 1 next to her cos i already must have scared her.
is there anyway this is salvagable?
its not as if i had even a chance to charm her cos she never stops and i think just cos she's not open to being approached on the street be it in the day or at night.
she's probably top 3 prettiest girls on campus (i been through looking and thats my conclusion)
should i be like 'so are u just shy or u being impolite not talking to me?
' haha in a jokey sort of way
Because it was at night girls seem to get more scared, I was unfortunate cos the sun only just set literally 1/2 hour beforehand and i maybe may have got a better response.
she refused to talk to me, pretending she didn't speak english. Then i finally opened her up by speaking her language, but she still wasn't very open. She was all dressed up in a short skirt heels etc maybe just came back from a date.
when we got to the next gate she wanted to walk in another direction away from me to go back to her dorms and i was going in the opposite direction, i got a name and everything but she was telling me in her language 'i need to go home now.. so bye bye'
and im like 'wait wait.. so u married?'
she laughs.. thinks for a split sec then says 'yes' then i walk away
shes such a liar. especially wearing an outfit that skimpy.
fast forward to yesterday, i saw her walking on campus looking glum shoulders slouched back, she was walking in opposite direction to me and about 10 feet from me so as we kinda passed i was checking her out.. she eventually looked round and smiled and nodded, but i think she did that cos she thought i might know her i.e. as a classmate/friend shes met but forgotten who it was so was polite by nodding.
i didn't go up to her and talk tho i should have.
anyway later that day in the afternoon i saw her again walking in front of me going back to her dorms, i was heading that way myself however it felt really awkward so i walked faster past her cos i didn't want her to think i was following her, as i passed i looked back, then said something to her in english then tried to in her language but cos i got muddled up i stumbled on my words she looked confused and cross eyed trying to figure out what i was saying, this went on for about 5 secs and she carried on walking past me then saying 'i have to go to my room, bye bye'
the prob was she was directly in front of me already and cos i needed to go to the dorms it seemed like i was following her in and creeping her out. (in this situation should you not carry on as planned i.e. go into the dorms? i felt i was creeping her out but i had to go there too! but to her she must have felt i was following her) i tried saying something again from behind her but i realise now that lowers my value, when we got to the lifts (there are 2 side by side) i did not take the lift she took i decided to wait and take the 1 next to her cos i already must have scared her.
is there anyway this is salvagable?
its not as if i had even a chance to charm her cos she never stops and i think just cos she's not open to being approached on the street be it in the day or at night.
she's probably top 3 prettiest girls on campus (i been through looking and thats my conclusion)
should i be like 'so are u just shy or u being impolite not talking to me?
' haha in a jokey sort of way