"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Failed last night - Here is why..

DonGorgon

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Ok so I failed to F close and Kiss close this college ho that came to my house last night. This is my story.

1. Texted girl i met last sat. told her we should chill she asked wen, i said tonight she said cool.. (I should have waited at least a day to seem busy and build her anticipation - mistake one)

2. I meet her at nine, she hops in car acting cool im running my setup game all is well but she is asking too many questions and i am answering too clearly (i should have given short vague answers but i am in a slump and was happy for the convo. BUT convo kills one night stands.)

3. Now in my room i pore her a drink, she took one sip and did not touch it which was a bad sign. I was showing her the stuff i do as a distraction but it caused her to become interested beyond a quick F. What that means is that she decided that she wanted to get to know me and so now is trying to act like she is not a ho who does stuff on the first night.. Damn!

4. I got music on she starts dancing which is good and i start kino , all is well... hand play went well got her in my lap foot play went well, rubbed on titties got her to lay down, suck on titties BUT guess what ...!? Not enough push and pull i was moving to fast, i was not smooth and she clammed up.. She stopped letting me turn her on and hit me with trhese BS shut downs:
- Im not comfortable with this so soon
- I feel like we need to get to know each other better
- I have not been with any one in a long time
- Lets just talk or watch a movie
(All those were BS cause she had Fed one of my buddies the night before damn ho..lol We both got her number the same night)

5. So now i have given up and she wil not let me do anything else physical instead she is in deep conversation doin dating prospect qualifiers..lol So then it gets late and she has to go.

6. so i drop her home and go for a kiss close, no luck but she kisses me on the damn cheek saying we have plenty time for all that.. Then get this: SHE ASKS TO TAKE ME TO A MOVIE ON FRIDAY!!! WTF? YES SHE SAYS SHE IS PAYING..WTF?? IM LIKE WFT? Uh ok i guess. lol and she aks like 3 time if im sure and if i promise..lol im guessing this is a flake-set-up game. Im not gona contact her at all..
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha, she wants to prove to you she's not a slut. Make her feel like she's not such a ho-bag slut and you'll be catching your buddy's diseases in no time!
 
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5. So now i have given up and she wil not let me do anything else physical instead she is in deep conversation doin dating prospect qualifiers..lol So then it gets late and she has to go.

I just got de ja vu. Good effort, though.
 

DonGorgon

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dj_china said:
she Fed your buddy and she knows that you know this, and now she wants to pay for your movie ticket?

that sounds like a really convoluted way to plan to flake on you... maybe she really wants to be just friends

She does not know that i know she Fed him...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon said:
She does not know that i know she Fed him...
No offense but why do you want your homeies seconds, knowing that he busted a nut on her chin last night :confused:

well DG--I got my own date tonight I will run the FR here, hopefully I'll get it in

:woo:
 

DonGorgon

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Solomon said:
No offense but why do you want your homeies seconds, knowing that he busted a nut on her chin last night :confused:

well DG--I got my own date tonight I will run the FR here, hopefully I'll get it in

:woo:

every woman is sombodies 2nds 3rds 4ths 5fths 6ths..etc etc etc ... wether we know it or not.. i dont care who she Fed as long as I F
 

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Fu---cked is what he ment and ****ed is what he will get!!! If your looking for a lay wrap that bad boy up and drill for oil.But she will do this to the next guy after you shut the bedroom door:cool: !!!
 
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