failed gym pickup... game fail

[Enjin 7]

whats up guys long time no talk.

I moved over here to hawaii and am having a good time.

so I tried to talk to a chick after the gym today. honestly I was a little nervous because she was totally my type. she apparently was a foreign exchange student from japan, my home place. so outside the gym I kinda ran after her and told her to wait. we talked for a little while about the gym and food and when it was time to split, I told her we should hang out.

I asked her if she had a phone. she said no... I was like oh ****. what? I thought it was going well. then I asked her how I should contact her, and she said facebook. went back, looked her up, no such name... BIFF. kinda hurts. but Im shaking it off lol. or trying to. she was a cutie and I wanted to bang her.

Gotta get more confident here. This is a land full of good looking guys. I was so used to being like "the ****" over in japan because Im a relatively good looking white guy. but here... maybe not so much. gotta figure out how to get these chicks.

I think the most important thing is that I gave it a shot... I almost didnt. and I feel like Im working on becoming a much more confident person while adjusting to the new level of competition. keep the game strong.

enjin

 

[Tiguere]

relax... keep on trucking.. got rejected once ???? big deal be a a real man and aim for 5 daily rejections.

 

[Enjin 7]

interesting. she friended me on facebook.

long term boyfriend and a promise ring. gonna go for it and try to bang her anyway.

 

[Zarky]

relax... keep on trucking.. got rejected once ???? big deal be a a real man and aim for 5 daily rejections.

Thank you. OP, hit on 20 women, if you get rejected by all of them come back and ask what went wrong.

It's a numbers game. "Game" will increase your odds from 3% to 9%, or something like that. You get my point.

Ted Williams is a baseball legend for only failing 60% of the time.

 

[EvilAgenda]

long term boyfriend and a promise ring. gonna go for it and try to bang her anyway.

Dude, don't be a dk. Get rid of the scarcity mentality. There is an abundance of beautiful women who are NOT in steady, long-term relationships.

 

[mustfirstregister]

then I asked her how I should contact her, and she said facebook. went back, looked her up...

are you a stalker?

 

[SamTheHobit]

are you a stalker?

Good question.

 

[rhcp83]

edit.

 

[zekko]

It's a numbers game. "Game" will increase your odds from 3% to 9%, or something like that. You get my point.

Still, that's a 300% increase in success rate!

I'm glad to see you say this, Zarky. Too often reading this forum I get the impression people think that because they know "Game" 100% of women will be attracted to them, and 0% of women will be attracted to other males (because they're all AFCs). Or something close to that.

There is no magic pill.