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Don Juan
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This is more of a question concerning my most recent situation.
Ive known this chick for over a year, when she was with her boyfriend. To be honest, I never had the intentions of making a move on her at all. Rather, she made the move onto me after the inevitable breakup.
Things seemed to go okay, we got along, and hung out several times at her appartment. She really seemed into me a great deal, and we had alot in common. It seemed things were going in the right direction, than all of a sudden, she flakes out on what probably should have been a real first date. I obviously was not pleased at the time which I had set aside for this was blatently disrespected. I figured I would let it slide once, but than she pulls another no show the night a bunch of us go out, and plan to have a good night out.
So tonight, a bunch of us go out again, and she decides to ask this other guy out right in front of me. Well I guess if my time wasnt disrespected enough, than more dammage could have been done. alas, I took solace in knowing exactly where the interest levels at that point stood; nonexistant.
My question , after this long story, is what possible reasons could the interest levels have abated as they did? Obviously, I wish to learn from this to avoid a repeat when I land another chick.
Ive known this chick for over a year, when she was with her boyfriend. To be honest, I never had the intentions of making a move on her at all. Rather, she made the move onto me after the inevitable breakup.
Things seemed to go okay, we got along, and hung out several times at her appartment. She really seemed into me a great deal, and we had alot in common. It seemed things were going in the right direction, than all of a sudden, she flakes out on what probably should have been a real first date. I obviously was not pleased at the time which I had set aside for this was blatently disrespected. I figured I would let it slide once, but than she pulls another no show the night a bunch of us go out, and plan to have a good night out.
So tonight, a bunch of us go out again, and she decides to ask this other guy out right in front of me. Well I guess if my time wasnt disrespected enough, than more dammage could have been done. alas, I took solace in knowing exactly where the interest levels at that point stood; nonexistant.
My question , after this long story, is what possible reasons could the interest levels have abated as they did? Obviously, I wish to learn from this to avoid a repeat when I land another chick.