Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FACTS when it comes to getting P*SSY

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"I agree with the guy totally. Those women in the OPs pictures are attractive but they don't appeal to me either. Usually when they look like their entire life revolves around looking like barbie it does.

Usually the barbie clones are boring idiots that are hardly worth tolerating for a one nighter. I don't know if thats the other guys reason for saying they arnt his type but it's mine.

I'm not a hater or anything but I agree that those women from the pictures are not everyones definition of high quality. I'm not saying I wouldn't talk to them but they are probably just as annoying as they look."

Exactly.

A lot of guys, even if the club girls in the pictures weren't their type, would have a ONS with them anyway just so they could say, "I banged a club chick." Like Real Deal said, talk to them for one second, and their lack of substance will take an already boring look and make it annoying.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Real Deal and ArtVandelay

you guys are prime examples of the last FACT that i stated

you need to realize that girls that look like the ones in the pics, they are the #1 most desired kinda females by men........its only the men that are so insecure with themselves that they think they have NO chance with them that start talking smack about them

those girls are ULTRA feminine.......they dress up, do makeup, hair, giggle, act stupid, they are out looking for a TRULY masculine male to dominate them (in a good way)

i think ive just managed to point out that you guys define "quality" as a more masculine kind of woman?

also saying how "easy" it is to fcuk any of these girls, id like for all of the haters to step up and tell me just how easy it is!!

im seriously wondering how easy all y'all feel that it is to have sex with a "club girl"

go ahead and tell me, anyone

BUT

dont speak from theory, I WANT REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
 

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positivity_injection said:
this is why so many guys here seem to be virgins.......they feel like they are ENTITLED to the hottest girls, but they will never get them, thus the virginity will continue through their teens, 20s and 30s........dont believe me? just ask them
So true.

Older Male Virgin thinks: "Only hot girl can take it away since I've waited so long, and first time sex must be with Angelina look-alike and mind blowing like Basic Instinct. I'm not going to give it up to a 6/10 slightly overweight looking girl, I'm entitled to the best sex ever"

Dream on boys, doesn't happen like that.
 

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Positivity, what would you rate the girl in my pic, and is she feminine in your opinion?
 
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ArtVandelay said:
Positivity, what would you rate the girl in my pic, and is she feminine in your opinion?

yea, shes cute, but shes not stunning or hot or gorgeous......id go for her

you gotta learn, u cant hate on girls if they are hot in a DIFFERENT way than you are used to
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OF COURSE we want ONS with hot girls.

There is no such thing as "love". It's just an illusion created by the media to make women become more picky and to make men buy their women luxury goods out of frustration.

The only reason women exist in this world is to get fvcked. If we want to have stimulating conversations and just shoot the sh!t, we got guy friends for that.

"Quality woman"

Why in the hell would you want some smart, proper, conservative girl?!

When it all comes down to it life is about fvcking and surviving.

I don't want to go over to her house and debate with her about current events for three hours.

I want to come all over her and bang the sh!t out of her.
 

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positivity_injection said:
no sugarcoating, this is all fact and fiction when it comes to what i have tried in my life when it comes to getting women......i know exactly what I am talking about here, and i hope people who need help learning seduction will get something outta this:




Fact: Being too proper, moral and polite will rarely get you laid, but will frequently get you friended

Fact: Being too C+F, too neg-hitty, too mysterious, too aloof will rarely get you laid, but will frequently get you ignored

Fact: Being sexual, looking your best physically, talking with wit and being brutally honest to yourself with what you want will usually get you laid, and rarely get you anything else




Fact: You will never find "the one" to happily settle down with if you expect her to be the first girl you ****

Fact: You WILL find the one if you stop giving a **** who you date, and just get out there and DATE DATE DATE, the more girls you see, the more you realize what you want from a woman

Fact: The longer you wait to start dating regularly, the harder it will be for you to overcome anxiety and all that bull**** (aka, much harder to start dating when you are 30 compared to when you are 20)




Fact: Most guys are AFC, which means if you try to mess around with a girl who has a bf/husband, there is always a chance you will end up on the news in a murder story (AFC's would kill for *****, thats the chump way to go, pvssy > a human life)

Fact: It is very difficult for a girl to spread and STD to a guy, thus if you **** lots of girls and just use a condom every time, then you are close to 100% safe........if you are scared of std's, then maybe you should lock yourself up in your house, because there is always a chance you will get into a car accident if you drive to the gym or to the store

Fact: DO NOT make your standards for women high if you think that a woman would not see you as high quality either.........and chances are if you are a virgin or inexperienced, then you arent high quality enough to land the hb8 in the first place

Fact: THE #1 WAY TO GET LAID FAST (if that is what you want), is a simple phrase......you tell a girl "u wanna come watch movies at my place?" - thats it, and if you dont know how to take it from there, then read up on your Gunwitch


Fact: If the first thought that goes through your head when you see a guy like in the links below with a hot girl is "he's a douchebag and she is a slut", then you need to look in the mirror, because that guy is ****ing the hot girls that you are wackin off too, while all YOU do is hate on those guys - hating guys who have sex with hot girls is the most obvious sign of a frustrated chump, so DONT DO THAT!

http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/uploaded_images/DB4144-751680.jpg
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/uploaded_images/DB4147-777244.jpg



there are more facts but i think ive typed enough for now
Help us frame your experience by providing some sort of reference point. How old are you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonafide said:
I wasn't talking to you you insecure bastard
Why don't you just fvck off if all you want to do is argue.

Judging by your chody attitude, the last time you got some a$$ was when your finger slipped through the toilet paper.
 
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Help us frame your experience by providing some sort of reference point. How old are you?

23, 5 years of experience when it comes to females, 5 LTR's, tons of **** buddies, and a good number of 1, 2, 3, and 4 night stands (if you can call it that lol)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One standard household lightbulb has enough vacuum energy to melt the earth; that's a FACT. (Seriously :p )
 

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Really good post I think it will help lots of people. Only one of the girls i really find attractive though, she looks perfect is the blonde next to the guy in the second pic a glamour model by any chance? lol
 

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ArtVandelay said:
No, I'm just not attracted to club girls with fake tans. I like natural, girl next door looking types like Winona Ryder. To each their own.

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc305/Beckett20and7/?action=view&current=nice.jpg

I've showed that pic to a lot of guys, and none have rated her above an 8. The ones that gave her an 8 said "she's a 6 or 7 but her smile adds a point." Yeah, she didn't get any ratings below a 5, but she's not the club slut you see in those pics. Those are the kind of girls I'm physically attracted to, and the reason I'm a virgin. I'm about quality, not quantity. I've fooled around (i.e. everything but sex including ass-eating) with about 10 girls in my lifetime, but I don't even count any of them because they were all throwaways that to me were 5-6s. I'm in this for myself. Like Mav said, I'm selfish. I want girls that are lucky enough to meet my standards. If she doesn't meet my standards and has a nice chest, I'll play around with it, maybe let her blow me and throw her out the door.
She's off the scale for me, i dont fvck below a 7/10, she must be like 4 or so out of 10 for me. Im dishing out this harsh reality because you need to wake up and realise that most men wouldnt even have sex with the girls you like.
Youve said you dont have women on a pedestal and its absoloute rubbish dude. Come back to reality and acknowledge that she doesnt even catch the eye of most men.

Im confident she will know it, and see her friends getting looked at alot more. Unless you tell her she's amazing and so on she wont act like she is, and if you do she'l only act that way around you and think that your pathetic and bump into a man that brings her back to reality.

Before you get defensive or anything else, read this post again unbiasedly. Dont see it as a reason to get depressed either. Use it to snap out of the false reality youve caged yourself in which doesnt even make you happy!
 

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Positivity himself said she's cute and he'd go for her. Like I said and he said she's not going to turn every guy's head but you'd have to be gay or really picky i.e gay to rate her a 4 which is below the average of most women.

It's bad enough this site preaches bullsh*t like you have to act like an assh*le and a phony jerk to get women, then you have guys like you trying to brainwash other guys into what girls to like.
 

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Also, you have to learn to read before you type. Where did I put her on a pedestal? She's "my type" but there are a lot of girls that are my type. I prefer not to use the 1-10 scale because it's subjective and also 10 indicates perfection, which no woman is, physically or emotionally. There are plenty of "my type" around. Let me guess, Winona Ryder is a 2 to you? If you want to jerk off to Jenna Jameson porn when you're not playing dungeons and dragons, good for you, but pick a fight in real life and get your a** kicked instead of acting hard over the internet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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