"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FACTS when it comes to getting P*SSY

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no sugarcoating, this is all fact and fiction when it comes to what i have tried in my life when it comes to getting women......i know exactly what I am talking about here, and i hope people who need help learning seduction will get something outta this:




Fact: Being too proper, moral and polite will rarely get you laid, but will frequently get you friended

Fact: Being too C+F, too neg-hitty, too mysterious, too aloof will rarely get you laid, but will frequently get you ignored

Fact: Being sexual, looking your best physically, talking with wit and being brutally honest to yourself with what you want will usually get you laid, and rarely get you anything else




Fact: You will never find "the one" to happily settle down with if you expect her to be the first girl you ****

Fact: You WILL find the one if you stop giving a **** who you date, and just get out there and DATE DATE DATE, the more girls you see, the more you realize what you want from a woman

Fact: The longer you wait to start dating regularly, the harder it will be for you to overcome anxiety and all that bull**** (aka, much harder to start dating when you are 30 compared to when you are 20)




Fact: Most guys are AFC, which means if you try to mess around with a girl who has a bf/husband, there is always a chance you will end up on the news in a murder story (AFC's would kill for *****, thats the chump way to go, pvssy > a human life)

Fact: It is very difficult for a girl to spread and STD to a guy, thus if you **** lots of girls and just use a condom every time, then you are close to 100% safe........if you are scared of std's, then maybe you should lock yourself up in your house, because there is always a chance you will get into a car accident if you drive to the gym or to the store

Fact: DO NOT make your standards for women high if you think that a woman would not see you as high quality either.........and chances are if you are a virgin or inexperienced, then you arent high quality enough to land the hb8 in the first place

Fact: THE #1 WAY TO GET LAID FAST (if that is what you want), is a simple phrase......you tell a girl "u wanna come watch movies at my place?" - thats it, and if you dont know how to take it from there, then read up on your Gunwitch


Fact: If the first thought that goes through your head when you see a guy like in the links below with a hot girl is "he's a douchebag and she is a slut", then you need to look in the mirror, because that guy is ****ing the hot girls that you are wackin off too, while all YOU do is hate on those guys - hating guys who have sex with hot girls is the most obvious sign of a frustrated chump, so DONT DO THAT!

http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/uploaded_images/DB4144-751680.jpg
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there are more facts but i think ive typed enough for now
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fact: DO NOT make your standards for women high if you think that a woman would not see you as high quality either.........and chances are if you are a virgin or inexperienced, then you arent high quality enough to land the hb8 in the first place
I take issue with this one. What equates quality? the amount of girls you had or other factors? the line about virgin or inexperienced might see you as low on social proof but does that mean you are low quality?
 

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Joe The Homophobe said:
I take issue with this one. What equates quality? the amount of girls you had or other factors? the line about virgin or inexperienced might see you as low on social proof but does that mean you are low quality?
On a primitive level, females chose males who have had previous success with other females. Its funny how scientists found this out first through looking at male - female relationships in FISH, while it happens in us too.
 

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I agree with everything except the pictures. Those guys are douchebags, especially the first one.
 

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L777 said:
I agree with everything except the pictures. Those guys are douchebags, especially the first one.

Too bad those guys dont give a fvck what you just said. I see two guys who know what they are going for and how to get it.

What makes you say they are douchebags? Is it because of what they are wearing? After you have talked to the guy you can make the call on if hes a faggot but not from looking at a picture.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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positivity_injection said:
Fact: It is very difficult for a girl to spread and STD to a guy, thus if you **** lots of girls and just use a condom every time, then you are close to 100% safe........if you are scared of std's, then maybe you should lock yourself up in your house, because there is always a chance you will get into a car accident if you drive to the gym or to the store
This is the only real problem that i have, and i suppose its just nitpicking, but how do you figure its difficult for a girl to spread an STD?
 

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I like this thread.

And yea, I hate those websites that talk **** about guys in clubs with hot girls, etc. Who cares how they (other men) dress, look like, etc. You're not f*cking them. I highly doubt that they dress and act like that in most non-club/non-bar circumstances. And even if they did you wouldn't know that just by judging from a couple of pictures.

I agree, at least get to know someone before you judge them. Otherwise you're just projecting.
 

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john paul said:
Too bad those guys dont give a fvck what you just said. I see two guys who know what they are going for and how to get it.

What makes you say they are douchebags? Is it because of what they are wearing? After you have talked to the guy you can make the call on if hes a faggot but not from looking at a picture.

Well I don't give a f.uck if they don't give a f.uck....still a pair of douchebags.

Its mostly the first guy...look at his clothes, his facial hair, his pose - everything. And I know better-looking guys who get better-looking girls so I'm really 'hating'. Hell, I've been with a couple of girls I'd consider hotter than those.

Maybe its a cultural thing...you probably wouldn't last the night looking like that in England.
 

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L777 said:
Well I don't give a f.uck if they don't give a f.uck....still a pair of douchebags.

Its mostly the first guy...look at his clothes, his facial hair, his pose - everything. And I know better-looking guys who get better-looking girls so I'm really 'hating'. Hell, I've been with a couple of girls I'd consider hotter than those.

Maybe its a cultural thing...you probably wouldn't last the night looking like that in England.
Let's assume it is cultural and not just YOUR opinion - SO WHAT?! You still don't know them. For all you know they're fun guys who just like to go out and let loose.

Judging a book by its cover is ignorant.
 

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I'd give all of those girls 5s. Not everyone, believe it or not, is attracted to the porn star looking type.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mr_elor said:
Not bad, not bad at all. You're delivery could have been better but your message is a lot better than the drivel that gets constantly posted here.

Using too many negs, C+F etc (basically too much game) has definitely been a problem of mine in the past, it ****s you over royally.

seems like you learned that over-using what you learn here is not the way to go, especially if you already have a girl attracted to you and ALL you need to do is simply small talk and get to know the girl, then escalate and **** her

sorry about the delivery, i cant make myself talk any differently, i dont wanna come off as some proper creepy dude cuz im not that
 
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Joe The Homophobe said:
I take issue with this one. What equates quality? the amount of girls you had or other factors? the line about virgin or inexperienced might see you as low on social proof but does that mean you are low quality?

a guy who is very inexperienced who comes off as creepy in most dating situations, who doesnt dress well, and who has little going for him should not EXPECT to land an hb8 or hb9.......get in where you can fit in......if u happen to be geeky, then u gotta start your learning curve with some hb5 geeky girl, and then move on up as you gain experience

this is why so many guys here seem to be virgins.......they feel like they are ENTITLED to the hottest girls, but they will never get them, thus the virginity will continue through their teens, 20s and 30s........dont believe me? just ask them
 
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LostAndConfused said:
On a primitive level, females chose males who have had previous success with other females. Its funny how scientists found this out first through looking at male - female relationships in FISH, while it happens in us too.
very good point, very good observation for a virgin......now are u gonna go out and take care of that virginity asap? u better!
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
This is the only real problem that i have, and i suppose its just nitpicking, but how do you figure its difficult for a girl to spread an STD?

use logic for a sec.........if u wear a condom, then how will an std get INSIDE you?

aside from that, read shyt online, its all there how its highly unlikely for a guy to catch HIV from a girl..........besides HIV, tell me what std's will affect your life and make it worse?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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L777 said:
Well I don't give a f.uck if they don't give a f.uck....still a pair of douchebags.

Its mostly the first guy...look at his clothes, his facial hair, his pose - everything. And I know better-looking guys who get better-looking girls so I'm really 'hating'. Hell, I've been with a couple of girls I'd consider hotter than those.

Maybe its a cultural thing...you probably wouldn't last the night looking like that in England.
guys like that dont care what YOU think........they are pretty happy railing those hot girls that go for them

newsflash to you and anyone interested - hot club girls usually go for hot club guys when it comes to pure sexual attraction

its very likely that in England its a different look that the hot girls have, but i live in America so im keeping this all american for now........in America, hot girls like that love guys that look like that.........they love them for sex.......those guys are natural and themselves, thats who they are and thats who they like to be. You cannot hate someone just because they end up being successful with women, even if they do "look" like douchebags

remember, nerds need to call successful guys names to feel better about themselves.........dont do it L777 - i dont dress like them, but i know they get pvssy, so im not talkin shyt about them, you shouldnt either!
 
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ArtVandelay said:
I'd give all of those girls 5s. Not everyone, believe it or not, is attracted to the porn star looking type.
that is hater virgin talk, get out of this thread unless you are ready to learn
 
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wjh said:
Let's assume it is cultural and not just YOUR opinion - SO WHAT?! You still don't know them. For all you know they're fun guys who just like to go out and let loose.

Judging a book by its cover is ignorant.

see you are from LA so you understand how that kinda look is cool and fun and all that

someone from England has a hard time understanding that

but its good to see you got my point
 

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No, I'm just not attracted to club girls with fake tans. I like natural, girl next door looking types like Winona Ryder. To each their own.

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc305/Beckett20and7/?action=view&current=nice.jpg

I've showed that pic to a lot of guys, and none have rated her above an 8. The ones that gave her an 8 said "she's a 6 or 7 but her smile adds a point." Yeah, she didn't get any ratings below a 5, but she's not the club slut you see in those pics. Those are the kind of girls I'm physically attracted to, and the reason I'm a virgin. I'm about quality, not quantity. I've fooled around (i.e. everything but sex including ass-eating) with about 10 girls in my lifetime, but I don't even count any of them because they were all throwaways that to me were 5-6s. I'm in this for myself. Like Mav said, I'm selfish. I want girls that are lucky enough to meet my standards. If she doesn't meet my standards and has a nice chest, I'll play around with it, maybe let her blow me and throw her out the door.
 
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ArtVandelay said:
No, I'm just not attracted to club girls with fake tans. I like natural, girl next door looking types like Winona Ryder. To each their own.

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc305/Beckett20and7/?action=view&current=nice.jpg

I've showed that pic to a lot of guys, and none have rated her above an 8. The ones that gave her an 8 said "she's a 6 or 7 but her smile adds a point." Yeah, she didn't get any ratings below a 5, but she's not the club slut you see in those pics. Those are the kind of girls I'm physically attracted to, and the reason I'm a virgin. I'm about quality, not quantity. I've fooled around (i.e. everything but sex including ass-eating) with about 10 girls in my lifetime, but I don't even count any of them because they were all throwaways that to me were 5-6s. I'm in this for myself. Like Mav said, I'm selfish. I want girls that are lucky enough to meet my standards. If she doesn't meet my standards and has a nice chest, I'll play around with it, maybe let her blow me and throw her out the door.

what makes you think you deserve to have standards? are you a highly desirable guy?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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