Fact: Just because you are on a DJ Forum doesn't mean you are not an AFC

[backbreaker]

It's a fact. It's a problem I came into contact with first hand when I first came to this place 3 and a half years ago (damn, i've been here a while)

Yes, you took a step in the right direction by registering and dedicating yourself to learing the errors in your previous ways... That much can't be said for your average male.

However, just because you've been here a month, hell a year, and you know some of the basic DJ prinipals, doesn't mean you GET IT yet.

Stop reffering to other guys as AFC's, when your post shows you are no worse then them.

Not dogging you, but what have you done besides come here and read an article or two that makes you any different then guy that is in compitiion then you?

When it all comes down to it, once your C&F lines don't work, you will revert to being as AFC as he is , if he is an AFC at all.

Like I said, I for some odd reason, went back over my first posts, and I can't belive some of the thoughts I had, as recently as 8-9 months ago! Espically when I first came to this forum.

Now that I think about it, I would call a guy AFC...and he would probably deserve it, but would give advice to guys about what Iwould do, ,and turn around and ask pretty much the same damn question I just gave advice on, but somehow that it is happening to ME it's different.

Alot of times you just don't want to face the facts that no one really gives a damn about you.. it's harsh, but it's the god's honest truth.

Getting off the topic. The topic is, actually be somewhat of a DJ before you can call someone an AFC.

Even to this day , and I would think of myself as one of the more successful stories on this forum, I am now slow to call guys I don't know an AFC.. even some I do.. because my friends have a precption of me.. they don't see why women go for me becuase I am not trying to **** my friends, I am trying to **** women. I am a different person around my two best friends as I am around my GF, or Ex GF, or any girl I am laying the pipe to. So it's not fair for them to judge me or to say they know how I do what I do, because they don't know.. I give hints or advice from time to time, but I just don't sit in front of my TV while they are at my house and talk on the phone for hours (which I can't stand when guys do that)

I mean, doesn't this sound funny?

"lol, this guy is soo afc. He cries to his girl and he buys her flowers all the time, he is sad"

"now, this girl that is with this AFC guy sits by me in class... and I asked her for a pencil, and when she gave it to me, she smiled and touched my hand.. so I am pretty sure I played that one right guys, ,right?"


lol, but that's what we get on this fourm, day in and day out.

 

[Carnegie]

Agreed with the topic.
Ive been reading (not join) this site for over a year and I would like to think I am a DJ but in reality I am still an AFC. I have read so much DJ knowledge but have no applied them. I understand that no amount of reading will ever make me a DJ. I gotta get out there and experiment with what I have learned from here. Be confident, be fun, be happy, smile! and talk to everyone! Live life for myself and know that whatever I do in life, I do it for myself. If I died today, will I be content with my life up to this point? The answer is no for now...

 

[PRMoon]

Fortuantely i'm even more DJ in real life then I am on the forum. I don't/can't/won't post some of the stuff trouble that I get into almost on a daily basis.

 

[Tkman]

I have been on this site since Jul 2003 (for 2+ years) and I am in no way close to being Don Juan. I have improved significantley by probably 75% with my game , pimping style, etc ....... but to be a Don Juan you have be something special....

 

[wavejams007]

Iagree wit hyou generally, but even those who have been around a long wile and have a lot of posts sometimes have AFC moments. And sometimes all someone needs is one or two bits of advice to change the AFC ways, not a whole therapy treatment.True though, it helps when someone constantly reads pertinent articles.

 

[Mr Spitfire]

I totally agree with what you are saying, I shake my head time and time again at things I read on this site.

I remember a while back this guy saying

"there is this really hot chick that has been turning me down. But now that I am a DJ Ive got her. Cant wait, Im gonna start DJing her next time I see her."

Whats even more amazing is that these so called experts will come up with ridiculously complicated scenarios and explain or sorts of intricacies in psychology which have nothing to do with improvisation or actually reading a situation.

Being a DJ is about understanding females. Females in general and specific females. Its about having the balls to say things that you aren't supposed to say. Its about having the balls to throw a girl on a bed that just stepped inside your house. Its about feeling good enough about yourself to give love freely but not excessively to women. Its about having the balls to pretend and lie to women to push the right buttons to get them where you want them. Its about knowing they want you to succeed because deep down they want to be dominated. Its about feeling admired by men and wanted by women. Its about not needing but taking what you can and creating feelings where their weren't many and never would have been much.

Its about not wanting the woman you see and changing her feelings for you by saying something and touching her a certain way.

Its not about AFC or indicators of interest. Purge these stupid things from your mind. You are either moving her closer and changing her or she is changing you.

Love all women, hate individual ones, feel admired and wanted, mobile and free.