"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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facial hair...?

SoSuaveDude

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do women despise facial hair? Would a well lined and groomed chin hair and mustache combo decrease the amount of prospects in my pool lol? I know i shouldn't give a f*ck, but what is your take on facial hair and its effects on women? Oh, and i wear glasses too :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Iceberg

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Depends on the shape of your face, your personality and your style.

If I keep facial hair, I try not to groom it. But the "just got out of bed" look is my personal style. I don't want to look like I spent 30 minutes in front of a mirror...even though I do.

I don't know if "women" like it, but the women I'm into are gonna like it.
 

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I've had a goatee for many years now and I am thinking about shaving it now. I've asked a couple people what they think, and have gotten thoughts from people I haven't asked.

It's a pretty split group. I would say the majority of women said "no facial hair" but I was kinda shocked how many do like it. Just try your game with it and without it, see how you do.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Facial hair has nothing to do with attraction.

Whatever kind of facial hair you have, make sure it's something that you want because you like it. Everyone has their own preferences, and it's important that you make your personal preferences clear. There's really no magical "facial hair combination" that seriously attracts women.
 

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i always have stubble. looks cool on anyone nearly. beards are nasty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BBbardot

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little facial hair makes me crazy. It's my bf on holidays or on the week-end. Makes me want to have my face against his all the time. But i guess stylish handsome guys can do anything, sometimes last year by bf even rocked to moustache for a while ^^
but yeah beard, without any sort of intent art in it (please) is cool.
 

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Beard doesn't have anything to do with attraction? Maybe, but it does have something to do with how good you look. And good looks will at least give you a bonus ;)

Yeah, try stuff out. Some personal advice though: Don't try to grow a real beard if the hair is coarse and thin. Beards have to be dense and short, not coarse and long.

Alot of guys (like myself) don't have the "good beard hair". So when you decide to grow your first beard, you wanna look like this, but end up looking like this. Or worse, this :D

So yeah. For us young guys, it gets better as you get older. Other then that, yeah. I have a really short patch on my chin and that's it.

Oh another tip: If you want to make your face look more masculine, you can get a trimmer and trim the hair down super-short every morning. So you can have your 3-day-beard permanently.
 
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