"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jericg

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I just notice that I make weird facial expressions when Im talking to people. I think this must have came from my past culture before I came here in the US. Anyways, I noticed that when i talk I tend to stretch my mouth out, and when i smile, my upper gum shows up, which are unattractive. I noticed this when I began singing on my mirror. To fix this, I tried speaking to myself on the mirror while having my upper lip move as least as possible. This somehow deepened my voice and i seem to look more masculine. It showed more of my lower teeth rather than my upper teeth.

Then i also noticed that the eyebrow changes everything. I played around with it and then i see that it can easily add more emotion to my facial expressions.

Idk if im the only one to have this problem. I only found this out tonight. I might just be paranoid, idk, but sure am changing it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AlexLefty

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You're more than likely paranoid. If you're focusing on moving your face more than the interaction itself, you're paranoid...
 

twentee

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when I make a truly fast draw from concealment,

or when I am pushed hard by an opponent in freesparring, or a real fight, my face twists into something truly horrific. I was told this by my instructor, caught on cam when drawing the pistol. I"ve backed off attackers with just that look, actually. They can see that there's going to be blood on the ceiling, and it's not ALL going to be mine, either. :)

None of my ladies have commented about it showing as my orgasm face, and they probably would have if so! :)
 
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