Facial Expressions and Body Movement

[REd-xL]

Whenever you make eye contact with a girl (most importantly for the first time), make a combination of gestures that include raising your eye-brows, winking, grinning, smiling, nodding, etc. Practice in front of a mirror or in front of your friends to find what works best for you; or, for best effect, try it out on the population of girls out there until you find what works best for you.

My personal style works as follows: when our eyes match, I tilt my head slightly to the side and raise an eye-brow to convey, "Hmmmm? What you lookin' at?" Then a allow a sly grin to escape from the side of my mouth, followed by a whip of the eye-brows and a whip of my head up to communicate, "How you doin'?" This demonstrates a playful, friendly, candid demeanor that many girls will open up to quickly.

Whatever you develop, make sure you perfect it with practice. That means even on the 90% of ugly girls out there (UC Davis....go figure).

As far as natural demeanors go, never try the helpless, sad, naive, or pathetic looks. The poker face creates an enigmatic aura, but it's also unsettling.

Here's what tends to elicit the most looks and attention from my experience:

The ****y look....Walk with a high posture and head tilted up to convey an air of superiority. When looking down, move your eyes down, not your head. Don't walk stiffly; put a little rythym in your step, and let it transfer to your hips and shoulders in fluid transition. A strut gives you character. Your facial demeanor should appear as if you're friends dared you to get the number of some hot girl from across the room, and upon being successful, you walk back to them with a look of determined triumph on your face; a determined-set look in your eyes and subtle grin of sorts. Lastly, I chew on something, either gum, my tongue, or my teeth. This gives the impression that you are mellow, cool, and easy-going.

Again, I stress that this is my personal style, and it blends well with my facial flirting techniques. Adapt your method to your own looks, comfort, and style.

Practice, practice, PRACTICE! ....'til you get it just right.

Make it a game, enjoy yourself, and have fun out there with it.

Rx

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REd-xL (19) California

The only failure in seduction is letting one get away. -Jerome

 

[stockholder]

chewing... never thought of that. Chewing with a low frequency. Cool. Will try that.

 

[Jester]

hrm....i have really good posture, but some girls have told me i bounced when i walked. and one time a girl walked up from behind me in the hallway and said "you have a very distinguishable walk". im leaning towards good on this one because of uniqueness but i dont wanna look funny.


i really dont think i bounce when i walk btw, but apparently i do. what kind of walk is that?

great post btw

[This message has been edited by Jester (edited 01-23-2002).]

 

[REd-xL]

Originally posted by Jester:
i really dont think i bounce when i walk btw, but apparently i do. what kind of walk is that?

It all depends on how the rest of your body reacts to the bouncing. Is it fluid, reaching other parts of your body, or is your body stiff? If it's the latter, you can imagine how one could look like a one-man marching band. Make it fluid and thorough if this is the case.

As far as uniqueness is concerned, there's a very thin line between stylish and laughable. Unfortunately, what determines this is your status and looks, so you've got to be on the top of the food chain to pass things off as fashionable.

After all, someone who walks around school with their pants around their ankles is sure damn unique, but ostracized and deplorable.

Rx

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REd-xL (19) California

The only failure in seduction is letting one get away. -Jerome

 

[Jester]

LOL, ok ill make sure its fluid at all times. thanks man.

 

[aolsuxs]

Wait a minute....

Are you saying the girls at Davis are butt? I was considering going there and this is rather...disturbing news.

 

[REd-xL]

Originally posted by aolsuxs:
Wait a minute....

Are you saying the girls at Davis are butt? I was considering going there and this is rather...disturbing news.

Last year, Playboy magazine ranked UCD second-worst university in the US behind(?) Penn State. The best? UCLA, no doubt.

Most of the girls here are just...blah. You know, the girls that aren't horrendously ugly, but that you wouldn't bother to look at again either. 30% asian, 60% white, 10% other. Draw your own conclusions.

Rx

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REd-xL (19) California

The only failure in seduction is letting one get away. -Jerome

 

[aolsuxs]

Yeah I knew UCLA had some hot girls but I had no idea UCD was ranked 2nd worst. Thats friggin horrible. How is the college anyways? I applied there along with UCLA and my local college. Race doesn't really matter to me. Isn't UCD only 30 mins or so from sac and the bay area anyways

 

[IntermediateDonJuaner]

Red-Xl, so you're back ? Where have you been for so long? The forum needed your advice.!

 

[BMW]

Originally posted by REd-xL:


My personal style works as follows: when our eyes match, I tilt my head slightly to the side and raise an eye-brow to convey, "Hmmmm? What you lookin' at?" Then a allow a sly grin to escape from the side of my mouth, followed by a whip of the eye-brows and a whip of my head up to communicate, "How you doin'?" This demonstrates a playful, friendly, candid demeanor that many girls will open up to quickly.

Excellent!

 

[DjMystery]

So What your saying with the fluid walk is you should "pimp walk" or have something like that, hell yeah good advise, LOL!

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[REd-xL]

This should take care of all of them, I think.

Rx

 

[sAxyguy83]

Is this list posted online anywhere? I'm bettin' Worcester Polytech ain't much higher than UCD, but the girls here look pretty good (it's a supply and demand thing). Thankfully, my gf happens to be pretty good-looking even by outsiders' standards.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

that chewing thing has been a habit to me since I was in the 5th grade...I always thought it was bad, but I guess it really isn't. he he

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by REd-xL

Whatever you develop, make sure you perfect it with practice. That means even on the 90% of ugly girls out there (UC Davis....go figure).

I'm going to Davis..... The girls are ugly? Uh-oh.....

 

[DJ_Dork]

To put it simply,

Watch a movie that has James Dean/Clint Eastwood in it. Imitate their style. Remember, women are not looking for a friend so don't act like one if you want her.

 

[MoMurda]

Originally posted by REd-xL
It all depends on how the rest of your body reacts to the bouncing. Is it fluid, reaching other parts of your body, or is your body stiff? If it's the latter, you can imagine how one could look like a one-man marching band. Make it fluid and thorough if this is the case.

As far as uniqueness is concerned, there's a very thin line between stylish and laughable. Unfortunately, what determines this is your status and looks, so you've got to be on the top of the food chain to pass things off as fashionable.

After all, someone who walks around school with their pants around their ankles is sure damn unique, but ostracized and deplorable.

Rx

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REd-xL (19) California

The only failure in seduction is letting one get away. -Jerome

After all, someone who walks around school with their pants around their ankles is sure damn unique, but ostracized and deplorable.
Same as kids wearing AE and Gap 24/7, I like ta mix it up, a lil preppy mixed with thug ****/laid back mo fo, ladies love a man who can get away with unique fashion combonations(in my experience), but hey, whatever works for ya man.