"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LAWYER

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If you have a facebook let me know so I can I add you to this group I created just for DJ's
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desperate for friends much? Haha, just jokes.
I doub't anybody will post their link to their facebook profile because from my understanding, it's a site that most people only add as their friends if they know them. It's much different than Myspace. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Actually Guys I dont wanna add you as friends... I just wanna invite you guys to group!!!!!
 

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LAWYER said:
Actually Guys I dont wanna add you as friends... I just wanna invite you guys to group!!!!!
Yeah it kinda says you edited your post up there in your first post.

Pretty good idea though. Lure guys into your group and friend them.
 

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Yeah I know then he's going to give us the kool-aid with cyanide and we're all going to ascend to...wait...I've heard this one before!

BTW a group for DJ's...hell yea! There's a great tool for social proof with your friends and girls:up:
 

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lol, a facebook group for DJ's....me and many of my wings have a group like that on facebook already but we use different terminology. But yeah, due to the relatively secretive nature of this site compared to that of Facebook, I doubt you'll get many takers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RexMan how many people do you have in that group!!!
 

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It's like an elitist group where you can only be requested to join and it consists of about 8 members (3 from my college 2 at another and a few upstate)
 

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Rex Man said:
It's like an elitist group where you can only be requested to join and it consists of about 8 members (3 from my college 2 at another and a few upstate)
why not tell us what to search so we can find it on our own.

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