FACEBOOK: To Friend Her or Not to Friend Her (That is The Question)

[Harry Wilmington]

@Trump Oh, no worries. The girl I'm talking to is actually very hot - all the more reason not to succumb to every thing she asks for. It sounds backwards, but the fine ones are the ones that are used to being catered to... but they don't date those kind of guys for long cuase they know they can walk all over them, which they end up not respecting. And speaking of respect: because we're not facebook friends, we are able to use part of our together time showing each other the things we've posted. No pics of her huddled up with other dudes thus far, although there are quite a few pics of me being hugged up on by girls butt naked in body paint at the Playboy mansion (which I've shown her)... but that's a whole other story

 

[muscleman]

Harry, it's all in how you use it. As you said, you have your own preference of not using FB how most people use it, and from what I gather the same thing with text.

Sure, too much of anything is a bad thing. Your 'hanging out 9 days straight' is too much. Texting all the time is too much. Bickering over FB is too much. Updating your FB all the time is too much.

But none of that has to happen.

As I mentioned, I personally have privacy settings where I have to approve EVERYTHING that goes on my wall or anything I'm tagged in. That way I craft it exactly how I want.

No, all girls have not integrated FB into their lives, just like it took people a while to integrate texting into their lives and now nearly everyone does it. But nearly everyone WILL have FB in the next few years. This is the same debate people were having a few years back about 'call a girl don't text her, I don't text, I think it's stupid, etc'. Now it's the default method of communication, go figure.

So in a sense, yes FB can kill relationships if used incorrectly. So can texting. But used correctly, both can create, build, and improve relationships. They're tools - how you use or misuse them is up to you.