"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Facebook: Stop her knowing you read her PM

seethehoop

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Anybody using Facebook to game girls will probably have noticed that it now tells the person who PM’d you when you read their message.

Personally, I see this as an invasion of my privacy but until Zuckerf**k decides to actually grow a clue and make this optional you may very well find that you can no longer receive a message on Facebook and claim to have not had time to read it or never got it.

There is however a slight trick you can do to get round this. So if you are interested I will share.

If you use your smart phone for your social networking then make sure you have the Facebook messenger app installed. Then when you get a message, open the messenger app, turn the phone horizontal and you can read the first two lines of the message without opening it. If the screen is big enough you may be able to read the whole message without opening it. Turning it horizontal allows the more room so you can read more of the message. This works on the Galaxy SII and I assume it will be the same for most smart phones.

This post may be a no brainer to most people but I have used it a couple of times when I have received a message notification and not wanted it to seem like I was waiting for them to message me. I have then had time to compose a response or leave it to appear that I haven’t yet checked my messages/not received it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zerro

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I think that you have way too much time on your hands if you worry about things like this.
 

NewAndImproved

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There's a similar problem with the iPhone and its new iMessage feature.

If you and a girl both have iPhone and iMessage activated, she can see when you've read her messages and also even when you are typing.

Game's getting even more complicated now.

Good thing I stopped worrying about stuff like that now.
 
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