"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facebook Status Updates : What not to do.

Warrior74

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I would think it would go without saying...but I have some friends who are grown men in their late 20s and even mid 30s, who post the most AFC stuff on their facebook status updates. Whining about your problems on facebook is no different than whining about your problems in real life. If facebook is the new town square, its like shouting out how pathetic you are in public. Women don't see it as sensitive, they just feel sorry for you and see it as weakness.

Posting lovey dovey stuff all the time. Very emo and not manly at all. Everyone doesn't want to know your business.

Getting in arguments with your girl and airing it out on facebook. Really homies? Don't put your business out there in the street.

I talk to several of my clients on facebook so I'm really keen about what I will and won't post and how it will be percieved. Maybe it's just me because I have an interest in it other than just venting my emotions.

Just a note/rant. Feel free to discuss.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CarlitosWay

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I rarely post a status update if I do it's usually some like going to the gym... or something lol... not to big into it

I usually just post on other peoples updates and joke around with people. Worse thing you can do is what you listed above and doing status updates about every little thing for instance Carlos is constipated and needs to take a dump....thoughts my facebook peeps?
 
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