"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Facebook Status Updates : What not to do.

Warrior74

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I would think it would go without saying...but I have some friends who are grown men in their late 20s and even mid 30s, who post the most AFC stuff on their facebook status updates. Whining about your problems on facebook is no different than whining about your problems in real life. If facebook is the new town square, its like shouting out how pathetic you are in public. Women don't see it as sensitive, they just feel sorry for you and see it as weakness.

Posting lovey dovey stuff all the time. Very emo and not manly at all. Everyone doesn't want to know your business.

Getting in arguments with your girl and airing it out on facebook. Really homies? Don't put your business out there in the street.

I talk to several of my clients on facebook so I'm really keen about what I will and won't post and how it will be percieved. Maybe it's just me because I have an interest in it other than just venting my emotions.

Just a note/rant. Feel free to discuss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CarlitosWay

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I rarely post a status update if I do it's usually some like going to the gym... or something lol... not to big into it

I usually just post on other peoples updates and joke around with people. Worse thing you can do is what you listed above and doing status updates about every little thing for instance Carlos is constipated and needs to take a dump....thoughts my facebook peeps?
 
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